We have opposite interests. I like to go out partying, camping, hiking, and other sporty activities. He likes video games and never wants to leave the house. I do the cleaning, cooking, and work 72 hrs. He will help but i have to ask for every little thing and it irritates me that he doesn't help at all. I cooked breakfast this am after loading adn unloading the dishwasher and picking up trash and he ate and for the first time just put his plate on the counter by the sink. Like I was his ***** or something?? I am pissed. He use to help but now he does this crap more and more. Then he has the gaul to say u didn't have to clean up sweetie I would have done it. Grrrrrr. Where r the men in this world I am tired of being peoples mommy's. But then he turns around and is so sweet and tells me he loves me and that I am the only one for him and he doesn't know what he would do without me. Also, he does all the controlling boyfriend crap. I have no life. Today I wondered why am i still with him?
2006-10-12 21:02:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because u loves him
2006-10-12 21:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by vicky k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are lot's of things wrong here. I don't think it's horrible to not clean a lot. Sometimes I don't clean promptly, but I get around to it and if my husband makes a mess, I'll let him clean up on his own time. But in your situation, it doesn't sound like the relationship is working. Having nothing in common is not the way to build a long-term relationship. And his controlling issues are not good for you either. You just have to decide if it's worth it to you to keep trying. If not, it's probably time to say goodbye.
2006-10-12 21:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by Maggie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually I side with the guys as anyone will tell you because it is 90% the women but in this case he is a loser. Move on quickly, you have all the talents and attributes to make a man happy, find one who in exchange for the fit body great sex and submissive attitude will treat you right xx
2006-10-12 21:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As I quote you "Today I wondered why am i still with him?"
duh.
Leave him if you can't stand him. You have already talked to him about this issue I suppose. If he still doesn't change, he will never change. Get a life and move on.
All the best!
2006-10-12 21:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by Geo C 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like the two of you need a break, you from working and breaking your back all the time... and the two of you from eachother! Good Luck hun
2006-10-12 21:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by 22/F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
CALL ME AND i WILL MAKE YOUR HOUSE SPOTLEES AND WHEN YOU GET HOME FROM WORK YOU WILL HAVE TO DO NOTHING BUT SIT DOWN AND RELAX!! HE SHOULD THE SAME FOR YOU BECAUSE MARRIGE IS 50/50 DEAL NOT 90/10.
2006-10-12 21:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My, you sound like a great girl. Muhahahahahahahaha.
2006-10-12 21:05:43 · answer #7 · answered by Rollercoaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just don't want to be in any kind of relationship. So call me and we'll do really exciting and naughty things... til I get as sick of you as your boyfriend apparently is.
2006-10-12 21:05:32 · answer #8 · answered by Chuck N Knutz 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dude, i was that guy u are dating about 2 years ago...then she got pregnant and i changed, let him knock u up.
2006-10-12 21:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
ditch the weenie and find yourself a g thatll appreciate you.
2006-10-12 21:25:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋