The guy I've Been dating for a few months broke up with me, and then came back... he wants a relationship without the "title" and when I asked him if that was a FWB thing he said no... he just thinks it will stop the "arguments we have had" he also started saying he loves me. He is also the president for a record lable, but reguardless, on his myspace he has all these half naked women, some he knows IRL. and some are his ex-gfs. and he says he's not going to give up being friends with all the girls who want him just because it upsets me. he has also left picture comments on other womens profiles (most before we got 2geather) saying they are beautifull and pretty, but never tells me those things. anyhow, since we got back togeather he hasn't changed his status back from single and looking for dating and serious relationships, even tho I said something to him... he's verry posessive over me,and he's a smooth talker too.. I do care about him. I may be jumping to colclusions. what do I do?
2006-10-12 20:59:23 · 11 answers · asked by 22/F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My heart goes out to you... you want to be loved and treated with the respect you deserve.
The man you love may love you... but it sounds like he shares this love with others besides you. He is not treating you with respect. He's not even trying to cover-up his player ways!!!
If I were you I would stop seeing him, not answer the phone when he calls etc... if he really wants you and loves you he will fight for you and be willing to stop playing around.
2006-10-12 21:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by Ahava 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The real question is: Are you still happy with him? Are you contented just being with him? Will you be happy with him? Or do you think you are just wasting your time on him?
If it is the latter, I think you have to leave him. If he can't appreciate you, then leave! There are plenty of guys out there who would DIE just to have you as his girl, so why stay with that smooth-talker?
You are special in a way, so stop being a martyr for that troublesome guy.
It's about time you spread your wings, to find that happiness... you'll never know, it may just be around you, but you are too blinded by this guy.
Open your heart and your mind.
Good luck! (",)
2006-10-12 21:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by Emz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first, don't trip off the other friends on myspace ~ it makes you look insecure about where you stand. as president of a record label, he IS gonna have all kinds of friends in and out of the industry, so that's something you'll have to live with.
second, did you guys have the "title" to begin with? it sort of sounds like he'd like to keep you around yet keep his options open, so it's up to you if you can be flexible with that sort of arrangement. (and yes honey sorry to say, but even if HE says it's not quite a FWB thing, it sort of is...)
but at this point, just relax and slow down. if you must, give him a taste of his own medicine (i.e. keep your status single, flirt, whatever... it's a game, but it'll keep you busy so you don't have to worry about what he's doing...)
2006-10-12 21:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by hello_beautiful_222 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a player to me, And it sounds like you both have different expectations of the relationship, The reason you think something is wrong is because there is, I don't know how old you are, But if you don't trust your perception and let people convince you that your imagining things, You will always have doubt but if you trust your judgement and are able to make decisions based on what you percieve you will find people will stop feeding you bull, If it looks like a duck, and sounds like one, quack qak If it only looks one way then thats the way it is
2006-10-12 21:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by dbcih8u 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Open your eyes dear...don't you see you're in way over your head? This person loves only himself. Never let a man be possessive of you. That's nothing but trouble.
I fear you're too far gone to heed my advice but he is definitely not what you need. Later...your picture, with comments, will be on the wall. If you are not being respected, and your dignity upheld, then you owe yourself more...much more.
2006-10-12 21:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by Robere 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, he sounds kind of like one of my exes, except for the whole president of record label thing. This ex was a total loser.
Get out before you get hurt. He sounds like he's at least emotionally abusive, if not worse.
2006-10-12 21:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by The_Cricket: Thinking Pink! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is his sun sign aqua
coz sure sound like that
dont worry
u just jealous
he is cool
u just jumping to conclusions
he is doing so to tease u actually
2006-10-12 21:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im sorry but half naked girls round ur bloke spells trouble in paradise
2006-10-12 21:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by kimliveshere 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants to have his cake and eat it too. He wants to be free to do whatever he wants but doesn't want you to be with anyone else. That's why he doesn't want the "title".
2006-10-12 21:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by caramel_sundae1077 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what he did this to you. you must be very hurt and sad. i think he is not worth it for you to bear with all this. break up with him and ignore him. there might be someone better than him outside.
2006-10-12 21:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by yeron ng 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋