i mean, the opportunity has been there, but never felt the spark that i've been waiting for....or just bad timing
2006-10-12 20:40:39 · 27 answers · asked by Jackie M. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not really...... but just sitting on your butt waiting for that special someone is not good either.... go out on casual dates, talk talk talk to the opposite sex (assuming you are so oriented)..... you don't have to really love someone or feel a spark to go out on a date... think of it as practice (sounds corny, yeah I know).... and talking doesn't have to be that tough.
2006-10-12 20:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Mabopsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No my best friend Jesse is 24 yrs old and has never had a gf and he's still a virgin! He's not gay! But one things for sure that he is very shy! So I think its normal if your 21 and never been in a relationship! Don't worry about it until you turn 30 then you should worry! Good Luck and remember good things come to those who wait!
2006-10-12 20:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by xSilverStarx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I do not think that it is weird that you have never dated in fact some people are just destined to wait until they know that they want to be with just one person maybe for the rest of their life. I believe that it is only natural for some people not to want to be in and out of a relationship every week or more, beside some women like it when a man hasn't known to many other women intimately, makes them less jealous and keeps you out of their $*** list.
2006-10-12 20:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by misticalmoon12000us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! I'm in almost the same situation. The timing is bad for me because of college and my living situation. I would have to get out more to meet women, but I just don't have enough time. And if I did have enough time, my living situation would not permit any significant relationships. I guess I'll just have to be patient and wait until I'm about to graduate. Good night!
2006-10-12 20:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 06:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not weird. I was like that when I was young and look at me now.... Happily married to my one and only first lover. Btw, I am old but still feeling young at heart because I am still very IN LOVE. ;)
Don't worry too much, when the right one comes along or you feel good with the opposite party, a relationship starts.
Don't feel stress and enjoy life.
2006-10-12 20:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, you've got all the time in the world, a lot of my friends are leaving serious relationships till later in life now, choosing to focus on career instead.
Dont worry about it!
2006-10-12 20:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.
I think you should try going on a few dates.
Maybe the spark isnt there YET.
But i have had about 14 boyfriends in the past two years.
and Im only 14.
but yeahhh.
2006-10-12 20:52:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so- I was v much the same. I was 28? I think before things fell into place. They fell back out a couple of years later but that's another story!
2006-10-12 20:43:00 · answer #9 · answered by 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am almost 26 & I have never been in a relationship
2006-10-12 20:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋