is it bad .. to want a kid... because that way u know that someone would need u and that u would have a reason to live? i feel like no one cares....i need someone to care about me ..
2006-10-12 20:38:45 · 8 answers · asked by InSaNe 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my family only seems to care about my brother because they think he is perfect and im not
2006-10-12 20:43:02 · update #1
How old are you? I felt the same way when I was 15 or 16. I wanted a baby because I thought that I would always have someone to love and that they(my child) would always love me. I am older now and I know better. I didn't have a baby thank God I didn't. Having a baby when you're to young and not ready is HARD. Sure your parents might help you but you are stuck with that kid and responsible for raising someone. Are you ready to shape someones future? To be honest sweetie you don't even know if it's bad to even feel like you want a baby right now. You don't know right from wrong. Please don't mistake REAL responsibility for love. Get more involved in school, Join clubs and play sports. Something. Start a band with your friends, plan a block party. Do something to take your mind off of a baby. You want to live your teen years and remember them for doing the things you liked. You don't want to remember dropping out of high school to work at a fast food restaurant standing in line waiting for food stamps. Pray and remember GOD LOVES YOU.
2006-10-13 02:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Honey Bee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is nothing wrong with WANTING a kid for that reason but i think that HAVING a kid for that reason is a bad idea. U should have a kid when you are married and in love and can be happy to provide the child with a happy environment
2006-10-13 05:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not the reason to want a child...do you know that it will be ten times as hard for you to live as a single mother, which you probably will be, and young, you sound really young.. a baby, at your age (assuming that you are about 12-15), will do nothing but slow your chance of improvement down and ruin your childhood. dont do it, dont try and dont even wish for one until you can provide for yourself on your own.
2006-10-13 04:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm... that would depend where you got the kid. and about your family, sometimes i feel that too. but i was wrong about it! you know, family can sometimes be a pain in the butt, but they only want what's best for you. they might not show you how they feel about you, but deep inside, they love you more than anything else. you shouldn't compare youself and your brother. think positive dude!
2006-10-13 04:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by caige 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I realy fill sorry for you ,dear.
Please try to prioritise the likes and dislikes of your parents, be honest with your self and respect and love them.
Most of all go to church and sooner all your problems and life will be like never before.
STOP thinking about having a child - that child is a probem ontop of another problem. God will do wonders for you!
2006-10-13 04:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please please please do not do that!!!!!!!!!!!!! You need to think about the kid... your thoughts ,not to be rude, are greedy! If your not ready it will be neglect!!! That child your talking about would only be there to make YOU feel better!!! I hope you understand, you are probably not ready if your asking this question!!!!!! Just do not put a child through the HELL of only being brought into this world to make the mother happy!! Please do not make that step, i hope you get what im trying to say!
2006-10-13 03:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by busybody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about your family
2006-10-13 03:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find out maybe they are right
2006-10-13 03:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by boiling boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋