so this girl i like that i talk to everyday says she likes me, and ive asked her out twice, but both times she said no. she talks to me like a best friend though, not like someone she loves, even knowing she says it nearly everyday. what should i do? should i ask her or would that ruin our friendship because the first two times i asked her were about a year ago. help???
2006-10-12 20:09:55 · 4 answers · asked by band_being 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not let it be the way she want it. If she wants it to go further than what is now, she has to make the move since she has refuse the first time you brought up the issue.
2006-10-12 20:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, she does not like you as a boyfriend. If you want to be around her and like her as a girlfriend, rather than just a friend, then don't be around her. She only wants you as a friend. Why drive yourself crazy, ask her out and if she says no, then don't do it again and find someone else.If she is still treating you like a friend, that is all she wants you to be and I doubt if she has changed her mind from last time. If she warms up to you, and flirts, then that is a signal, but if she is not doing that, then it is a dead issue. Go on and find others.
2006-10-12 20:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. If you ask her out again, it might not be all bad. The worst thing she can say is no "again". However, she does enjoy your company, and if she says "no" chances are if you can control your feelings, she can still be your friend. I would go for it, love takes chances.
2006-10-12 20:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by Confused Prince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think she just wants to be friends. she probably doesnt want to hurt your feelings...
2006-10-12 20:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Evan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋