i asked her out last january and she said no. we are much closer since then. should i ask her out or jsut plain kiss her and see how she responds?
2006-10-12 20:08:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm . . . if she was in a relationship then, I guess it would be a good idea to ask again. Even if she was single then, I guess it wouldn't hurt to take a chance (especially if you think she may have had problems in her life that made her unwilling to date at the time). But if she was single when you asked her out, I would not expect that she would have changed her mind about dating you. Women seem to have an idea of whether they will date you within about five minutes after meeting you. They might exclude you after the first five minutes, but they usually will not reconsider a person who they've already excluded. You can try if you like though. It's probably a waste of time. Personally, I would not ask her again unless she was single, really all over me now, and she had a boyfriend the last time I asked her out. Good luck!
Oh, yeah . . . one other thing. Don't tell this girl you like her. In fact, don't mention your feelings to any girl you like until you've been dating for months. The reason is it makes you look desperate or needy or something, and it causes you to instantly lose respect in the eyes of the girl. If you ask her out, she will know that you like her. You should not need to say anything else. Good night!
2006-10-12 20:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date first. Just one to see how comfortable you could be as a couple. If it goes well, then I say take the opportunity and go for it.
2006-10-12 20:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by SquirrelBait 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and explain feelings. She may respond better that way that just straight tongues down her throat!
2006-10-12 20:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out as many times as you like, there is no limit. Just stop when you don't feel like it anymore. It's simple.
2006-10-12 20:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay a good kiss or two on her!
2006-10-12 20:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab her sweater puppets. They love it when guys they've rejected do that
2006-10-12 20:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by Chuck N Knutz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out....if you just flat out kiss her you may lose your friendship.......
2006-10-12 20:10:09 · answer #7 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never, do not waste your time
2006-10-12 20:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋