I love being involved in my kids' lives, but what about struggling with having their lives be so invasive? Sure, I can take a drive or go read a book, but it is so hard to have physical boundaries at home.
Realistically, one of them really does need help with homework each night, and I want them to feel free to come to talk to us anytime they want about school, friends and work (gotta keep the lines open as long as they still WANT to talk to you!). However, I dont feel like I have my own space anywhere! Yes, I am thankful they are at home still and know that one day they will be gone.
Money is also an issue, so I can't just add on my own room with a heavy duty dead-bolt :) which is what my hubby and I really need to avoid the pounding on the locked door and the little one trying to look under it when we get a rare night alone.
So basically, my question seems to be 2-part: I need alone, recharge-my-batteries-and-personal-growth-time AND and I need marriage time with my love.
2006-10-12
19:35:29
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