I've been dating this guy since March '06. It got kinda hard when he moved to Cali, about 1200 miles away, cuz of the Navy. The story I'm about to tell you is strange...help me figure it out. My boyfriend has the area code 805 for his phone number, I don't know anyone else that has that area code.
7:50PM -- Phone call from an unknown 805 number, when I answered...the party hung up.
8:02PM -- Another call from the unknown 805 number, was hung up on again.
8:05PM -- I called the 805 number with my number blocked...the voicemail was a girls'.
9:12PM -- Recieved a picture txt msg from my boyfriend, from his mobile.
9:14PM -- I realized that he had sent the pic to not just me, but the 805 number that had called me earlier. (ie my mobile shows all numbers on group txt msgs)
10:12PM -- Called bf, he denied the whole thing, including knowing who's number it was.
The thing is...why would he be sending some random txt to a number he doesn't know. And why is this chick calling me?
2006-10-12 19:18:12 · 23 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
use your female intuition.if it feels wrong it probably is.
2006-10-12 19:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by 9k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it, but he's probably seeing this chick on the side. She found out about you, and got curious, and decided to call you. But lacked the guts to say anything. Obviously, he must know who's number it is, because the odds of this girl calling you a few minutes beforehand and then him "accidentally" sending a pic to the same number are like 90 bazillion to 1. The fact that he is in "Deny deny deny" mode shows that he has a guilty conscience about something. And it is unlikely he is planning a surprise birthday or something like that for you with a chick you've never met. If you really want to, and you believe the other girl is in the dark about you (because she may KNOW about you even if he is cheating) - you can call her back w your number blocked and try to have a convo about it... but I doubt that's worth it. You've pretty much caught him red handed.
Sorry to hear about the crappy situation. At least you know! Good luck! I hope you feel better soon.
2006-10-12 19:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is lying to you. There are several steps before a group list is finalized in a phone. She may have recieved the picture before you and called you to find out who you were. Double check the time that the pic was sent verses the time that it was received and determine if there's a gap.
There is no greater hell than a woman's scorn. Start sending group msgs of your own. Two can play that game. Shoot. email me and i'll send you my pic...... lol
http://www.whitepages.com has a link where you can find out what area the 805 area code is. It's Ventura County, CA and surrounding areas
2006-10-12 19:28:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That chick is probably trying to figure out the same thing you are. He's probably seeing someone in his area, she got a hold of your number, and she's thinking the same thing you are...."who on earth the other person is??" Otherwise how would you explain the group txt message from you bf? Sorry, but I think he's cheating! What a loser, he's not worth your time if he is...
2006-10-12 19:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by VIP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be a girl that's interested in him trying setting you up. It could be one of his friends messing around with him. I doubt that he's hiding anything because of the pic that was sent to both you and the other number. I could be wrong, but it seems like one of the two situations above. Somebody got a hold of his phone, and possibly some girls and decided to play a game with you.
2006-10-12 19:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by hawkeye847 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he wants to keep his cake and eat it, too. The best thing to do is find out from your server about the calls. I don't think he accidently sent a message to a woman. Even if he did, how did she get YOUR number? Sounds like he's playing you, hun.
2006-10-12 19:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Umm- he's probably cheating on you and didn't think he would get caught. Maybe she is wondering who YOU are. I'm sure she doestn' know about you either. Can we say LIAR!!! If it doesn't sound right- it's not!
2006-10-12 19:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by Tammy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but you boyfriend is messing around. The girl who girl you probably thinks that she is his new girl friend and wants to know who you are. He must be an idiot to be messing around on you. Hope it all works out xx
2006-10-12 20:02:38 · answer #8 · answered by Mattie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's playing games.
2006-10-12 19:19:55 · answer #9 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 805 too
2006-10-12 19:20:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a bit of piss taking going on here !!! He's up to something.............call the number back and withhold your number and ask who it is this time............don't let him take the piss out of you sweetheart !!
2006-10-12 19:26:17 · answer #11 · answered by tinkerbell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋