Why is it?? Help!!?

Question

Why is it that when you go out on a date with someone & they said that they enjoyed the date & likes u..but doesnt call?? Tired of all this mind games....

The frustrating part is that.. He doesnt call.. but we exchange emails!! WHY?

Answer 1

tough one to answer could be all sorts of reasons, it could be as simple as he does not realise it bothers you, or as bad as he really does not care only you know him what do your instincts tell you?

instead of asking our opinion tell him it upsets you and see what he says, us males can be oblivious to others feelings from time to time, that may come as a shock but trust me if you waiting for us to figure out what upset you, it could take a while,and don't use that killer logic of if you don't know what you have done there's no point me telling you, because that just confuses us more. we don't mean to be insensitive we just don't always get it. tell him and give him a chance to fix it if he still dont bother then danger will Robinson danger.

Answer 2

It's because most of us are chickens to really say what's on our mind. Instead of a good "I'm not feeling the chemistry" line, most men will puss out and say they had a good time and not call or reply.

I personally have called the shots at people's front doors or when the date starts. It's much easier in teh long run. I know it comes off harsh but you've got to be honest.

Answer 3

you make the first move and call. ppl dont always like making the first move. if you dont have the number then you're out of luck. and even though they said they enjoyed the date doesnt mean that they did. its called common courtesy. you would just tell someone that thier baby is ugly, you would lie and say its cute and cringe as you walk away. but making the first move would give you an advantage and a lot of ppl like that. try it.

Answer 4

I use to do that...If i was really diggin the person i would wait a couple days just so it wouldnt seem like im desperate. If we call the day after its not as surprising as if we were to call a couple days or a week later. Sometimes people get busy though and just forget...i done that a couple times too...I would remember in the morning but throughtout the day i would get busy and eventually forget to do it! Its not always mind games! You can always call first though. A man like to know a woman wants him just as much as he wants her!

Answer 5

Maybe they got the sense that you wouldn't put out or would end up being way too clingy. If you gave some warnings and they were heeded by your date, isn't that what the disclaimer is for? If this is the case, you might consider using your hand instead of scaring them all off.

Answer 6

If you are not having trouble getting a first date then why are you having so much trouble getting the second date? Next date do exactly the opposite of what you would normally do. I know that sounds so stupid, but it is amazing how often it works for me.

Answer 7

Maybe its because you don't know anything about English grammar. Learn how to speak, type out full words and use the right words. After you have polished up a bit you should be just fine.

Answer 8

U just havnt met the 1 4 u pepole are stupid

Answer 9

Just looked at your profile and the questions that you've answered and asked.
Honey! Clean up your act!
Its not them it's you.
You're the one playing mind games you've been doing it so long you don't know how to stop. Even I wouldn't call you back and I'm an idiot! Just ask any republican they will agree "I'm an idiot."

Answer 10

People are sometimes to shy to be up front and figure it's easier just to lie and leave you hanging. They don't want to hurt anyone directly. It some how human nature.