Everything can be going great - conversions/dates/kissing etc. And when you finailly sleep with a guy you are dating they completly change. They still want to see you, date you and have sex with you BUT something is different..they push away alittle. Are they scared? Are they not interested? ( trust me sex is great) Im confused by this? Guys any thoughts? Do us woman need to understand this is a "guy thing" or "he's not that into you thing"
Guys help!
2006-10-12 19:05:51 · 14 answers · asked by KA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion it's because usually once you begin to have sex in a relationship thats when things become serious and Men are afraid to show emotion and fear growing too attached to a woman .
2006-10-12 19:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is KA for clueless? How old are you? Yes, when you sleep with a guy because you think he loves you or you just want it or whatever, he has gotten what he wants and will most likely move on. His interest has dimmed. Men are hunters and they like a challenge, besides the fact that you need to be waiting until you are married or even meet the man you think you want to spend your life with. You keep giving away little parts of your purity, once it's gone, you can never get it back. When you do meet "the one" you won't have much to give him and you will have a bunch of jumbled, unfulfilled memories in your head that you will carry with you FOREVER. It's time to think over the value of what you are giving away for what? 3 mins.of what you think is love? NOT! You are worth more - c'mon, get it together now, before you settle for less than what you deserve!
2006-10-13 07:09:55 · answer #2 · answered by Forever 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Most guys are not very deep so it is kindof a guy thing. However, I would say for the most part they just figure that at that point they have you so they can drop the act and since they are so shallow they pull away a bit. Sorry, but girls are way deaper than guys.
Now I don't speak from experience but I have seen what you are refuring to and being a guy I can see what is happening on their end.
2006-10-12 19:15:33 · answer #3 · answered by Blaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the guy that behave that way are those that are just after sex and when they are through, they change the attitude towards the girl. But this not so with all men.
2006-10-12 19:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's just that the curiosity factor is leftno more in a relationship after a guy sleeps with the gal he has been courting.nothing abnormal about it. until a woman has'nt slept with a guy he is unsure whether the woman likes him & so gives extra attention towards his gal
after the girl has slept with him, he knows that she has interest in him & likes him so that extra attention withers away. it is normal don't think too much on this
2006-10-12 19:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by karan s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends on the man....I love to cuddle after sex and kiss and all that stuff...I am a man with needs of a woman...its complicated to understand....so don't try
2006-10-12 19:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by Justcurious81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can't handle being hurt by a woman. It's subconscious... that's why they don't show emotions and don't get all feely. A man getting hurt will cause his downfall.
2006-10-12 19:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes not your boyfirend and he already got the goods then he feels like I already got what i wanted so why try so hard, if she leaves oh well I got with her already. Its not about being onto your thing when he already got your thing its just that you probably didnt give him enough time to pursue you.
2006-10-12 19:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most times in my experience its the thrill of the chase it gives you something to try for and look forward to after you get it its still fun but the hard part is over it is something you already conquered
2006-10-12 19:11:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop giving it up and you will see a change in men. The real ones will never change.
2006-10-12 19:17:21 · answer #10 · answered by triniqueen40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋