Why m I still thinking bout him if we broke up he says he still luvs me but that we should try it some other he is not the same n-e more I just feel really sad I dont know what 2 do I just cant live w/out him?
2006-10-12 18:56:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is always like that at first but you'll soon go over it with time.
2006-10-12 19:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You CAN live without him. If it was a long serious relationship then you may feel that there is nothing else in the world and all you want is him but that is not true. Right now that is the only thing you know and you don't know that there is way more out there. Change scares you and you just want everything back to the way it was. It can't always be picture perfect. You're the bigger person if you realize you don't need him and don't go back to him.
2006-10-13 02:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by Alucard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its like this, i know right now you feel devastated but believe me once you get back on track you'll be fine. It would hurt a lot more if you continue with the relationship and you said it he doesn't feel the same anymore.he could say that he loves you but in reality he's feeling 'maybe' just a little bit -not what it used to be. You'll just end up killing yourself emotionally. Your a woman, you don't need anybody to complete you, remember love is like a glass of water, you must fill it with love for yourself, god and your family..by then the glass will be full so when other people come into your life the water will over flow and that means love will over flow and even if he leaves you the glass will still be full. i know this line is said a lot of times already but its true, 'nobody said it would be easy' its never going to be easy your in love and your heart is breaking. but you know what the good news is? you'll get over. love isn't permanent, love is like the house you build but when the hurricane comes it gets destroyed and if you cant fix it, move somewhere else..sorry to say but this is the truth now you'll have to choose between you
2006-10-13 02:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by twistedmusiquera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to be alright Marlene, just hang in there. Believe me, the hurt will eventually end and you'll be a little older and wiser for it.
Talk to a friend and get a good shoulder to cry on and get your hurt out. It may take some time, but there will be another love in your life before you know it. Until then, enjoy life and the freedom to be you! Do things you enjoy and learn to do them well. Listen to some music, read, write, draw, daydream, skateboard, ride a bike, take a walk. You are going to be just fine.
Love to you!
2006-10-13 02:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by Big Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor baby... I went through the same exact thing. If he really loves you then he will be back! My girl came back to me!
2006-10-13 01:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by ks_stud_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can, quit being the victim. He's obviously playing you, either get over it and take control or be a doormat it's only your choice. no one can make it for you.
2006-10-13 02:04:29 · answer #6 · answered by Mitzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will come back to oyu if he loves you but then give him some time & during that time stay away from other boyz otherwise he will think that you have moved on.
2006-10-13 02:04:43 · answer #7 · answered by karan s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can live without him.
you will feel better- with time.
love loss hurts
it will get better
there will be a better one to come along
people change...they just do
you'll feel better in time
believe me......
2006-10-13 02:01:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never been there, but thanks for 2 points get a job or something it might help.
2006-10-13 02:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by Desert Rat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋