All the other people who post up looking for a companion & they all get that other people want them.I don't get it. People give me a hard time just because I want a girllfriend. Dating websites don't work for me so don't suggest any of those. Yeah I know I will get a lot of negative answers. How come things never really work for me?
All I'm getting is just foreign girls, but I don't know if any of them truly want me or just to use me. Yeah I am talking about girls from outside of the US. I would like to have someone for once. I'm not such a bad guy. I love to smile. I love to make other people smile. I have a great sense of humor. But what I don't have is someone to share my life with here on Earth.
2006-10-12 18:47:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-12 20:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think online dating is effective unless you're unusually desirable and live in an area where there are many people using the same service. Going out into the world and meeting people is WAY more effective. You just have to be patient. On average, I would estimate that 1/3 of the women who give you phone numbers will consider going out with you. Of those, about half will really like you. And of the ones that really like you, about 60% of them you will like back. That means your odds of a girl you talk to being worth any trouble is like 1 in 10. I suggest you get to work!
Now, then, how do you meet people? Online is not quite good enough. You need to go out and DO things to meet women. Like take a class, volunteer, or hang out at various places (NOT bars or clubs). Good luck!
2006-10-13 01:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking. There's nothing wrong with wanting, but don't go searching. Most people who go searching look for specific qualities and when they find them they tend to rate them based mostly on that, giving their other qualities only marginal consideration. This works against you by qualifying the wrong people too quickly and also disqualifying potential good ones too quickly.
Make the most of single life. Keep your eyes open. If you get a vibe, act on it, but if it goes bad let it go; don't overpursue.
2006-10-13 01:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by goopup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax dude....friends before lovers. Don't try so hard, that's when love will happen, but I would stay away from the bar scene. Keep smiling!!! We like that!!!!! (:(:(:
2006-10-13 10:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by mare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, dude, if it bothers you so much that you don't have anybody, then go to a bar, or meet with your frieds, or get a new job! go on a trip, inside the US!
2006-10-13 01:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Desert Rat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋