What would be an appropriate thank-you for a Japanese grandmother?

Question

My sister-in-law's grandmother, who lives in Japan, recently sent some very nice gifts to our family. In a previous Yahoo! Answers question, I learned that it would be appropriate to send her a gift as a thank-you. What do you think an elderly Japanese woman would like to receive as a gift from the United States?

I'm asking this in "Languages" in hopes that some Japanese people will see this question.

Thanks for the clarification. I'm actually looking for suggestions about specific gifts that would be appropriate.

Answer 1

Find out her size and either a pretty blouse, or a house robe, would be appropriate. As we all like a personal touch with friends and relatives it is wonderful that someone takes the time to pick something pretty for us. Unless your sister-in-law can suggest something more appropriate.

Answer 2

Where does she(grandmother)live.Obviously your parent/s are japanese.Would'nt your parent/s be able to guide you,Perhaps if you live in different cultures an appropriate greeting card (gift voucher or money)enclosed would be adequate.I know this is less personable,My wife receives sometimes gift vouchers, and she always says so-and-so gave me this.Of course if you all live together you can add the your special touch.

Answer 3

Could you add in additional details her whereabouts and her age please? I was thinking a a fleece or down blanket. Or a short house gown to keep her warm but if you do not know her tastes. Then send her a fruit hamper. (I added a link) Also I know that at some of the supermarkets that sell Japanese stuff they have fruit like strawberries etc. that you can send to Japan. Or depending on where you live, maybe you can send her a souvenir from where you are.


Make sure that you add a note of thanks and photos of you and your family holding or wearing her gifts, or displaying it somewhere in your house.

Answer 4

Traditionally, you would send a gift which is twice the value of the one which you received.