Girl Friend is 14 yrs and cheated on me with a 16yrs and I am 18?

Question

What should I do? She wants to kill herself.

Answer 1

Dump the sl ut. Girls at 14 that puts out is nothing but slu ts and is not worth your time. Just use her for what you want then throw her away after she is all used up. Then get another girl and do her the same way. That's the only thing women are good for, toys for boys.

Answer 2

Brother you are in a bit of a bind.

You should simply tell her that overall that she is a good person (I hope she is) and that people make mistkes in life, this mistake is just one of many that she will make in life (I speak from experience here!) no mistake is big enough that you should consider a suicide (or any other drastic action for that matter). And tell her that she will quickly get through this problem and she will feel much better about hereself very soon.

Additionaly you must tell her that the relationship is now over. Once a boundry of trust is so severly broken, that the relationship that you had built can not survive.

If you were a bit older and closer in age and stages in life, There might be reason to salvage the relationship, but even now later in life I still do not know of a relationship that has survived cheating.

Overall make sure she does not harm herself and move on. In time you will both be fine, and as they say time heals all wounds (but they never tell you that you end up with some nasty scars).

Best of luck!

Answer 3

I'm sorry, but if u were my child I'd beat the living @#11 out of u for being with someone that young and immature. U realize that if her parents don't approve of your age or if they don't know and find out, that u could be sent to jail for a very long time, and have to carry the label of sex offender with u for the rest of your life. And by the way, why would u want to date someone that young and risk your freedom for the rest of ur time on this earth. Surely there are a lot of girls ur age that u could date. She's just a baby at 14 and u will be considered a pedophile if it isn't stopped.

Answer 4

first of all what the heck are you doing dating a 14 yr old when u r 18!!??? Do you really feel for her saftey or do you think she is saying that b/c she wants your attention.? Heck I know I was pretty immature at 14, you already know what you want to do so just go do it you do not need the okay from us...dumbher!

Answer 5

She needs help, the police would lock her up in a health instutution for 72 hour evaluation.
14 is much too young for u to date.......
She cheated on u,===she is 14-----get a life!
U r gonna learn one thing in life, to treat a woman with respect no matter the age. If u love her u will forgive her. If she needs help u will help her get it............

Answer 6

you shouldn't be dating a 14 yr old when you are 18. Of course she feels bad about it, you need to stay her friend, and let her go her own way when you can do it.

Answer 7

If she cheated on you then just let her go because if she will cheat on you once she will do it again. I would try to move on not soon but give it some time youll find someone that will treat you with respect. Ive been there my boyfriend cheated on me and it hurt like hell, but im trying to move on. Hope i can help some.

Answer 8

I don't normally answer the serious ones. If you are 18 and you have been effing a 14 year old you should be in jail!

Answer 9

SHE NEED TO GET SOME HELP, AND YOU NEED TO SEE
THAT BEING WITH A YOUNGER PERSON IS NOT THE RIGHT
THING DONT YOU. SO GET HER TO TALK TO SOMEONE
NEXT TIME YOU WILL LEAVE THE YOUNG ONE ALONG.

Answer 10

maybe u shud kill urself.. get another girl dude