Do I need a psychologist? What do I do? I want serious answers please?

Question

I am 15 years old. I always did good in school.Like 4.0 GPA. I never cause trouble and I was always nice to people. Ever since I started high school last year, I have been having more trouble in school. I don't know why. I work hard still. I study and I never miss any assignment. This year it's worst. I can't even get a 3.0 GPA. feel as though I'm not smart anymore. I don't have a boyfriend nor am I looking for one. I've also been crying a lot because of my lowering grades. I've cried at least 5 times a day for about a week and I just feel sad all the time. Is something wrong with me? I really want to know.
I've also been sleeping late and lacking food. I just don't feel like eating anymore because I'm just worrying all the time. I was 130 pounds last weeks and now I'm 123 pounds. I know that's not heatlthy, but I can't help it. I'm not even hungry. I try to eat, but I just don't feel like it. My biggest worry is how I disappointed my parents. Please help me.

Answer 1

Being 15 is itself a reason to major changes in your life. You are not alone. Everyone among us can tell how hard it was dealing with not just school but friends, pressure from age, family and tons of problems that teens face today.
The answer won't be a doctor.
The answer relies within yourself. You have to go deep inside you and see what is really happening. Ask yourself those questions and see if you can answer them.
One real reason why most students lower their grades in high school is not your lack of intelligence or your friends.
It's the school itself. every grade is harder then the previous one. It's supposed to be like that. So when you passed in high school things are much harder. Another level will be the college for example.
Take your information of grades not as a weakness but as a sign of you need more work.
My advice:
Stop crying, stay healthy and try to work more on your assignments. It's not easy but you can make it just like each of us has made it. Talk to your parents about it, they will help.
Good luck

Answer 2

The lack of interest in eating and crying are symptoms of depression, which commonly follows decreased performance at work or at school. The decision that you have to make is whether you can get yourself out of the depression with the help of friends and family, or if you should seek medical attention. I have a few recommendations before you go to a doctor.

First of all, I'll tell you that I am a 27 year old high school math teacher. I've seen more than a couple of young men and women going through what you're going through right now, and it's nothing that you should overreact to. Grades are a very important thing in high school, as they will be used to determine what college you can go to or what job you get after school.

The easiest way to raise your grades in school is to communicate with your teachers. First of all I would recommend asking the teacher if you can move your seat to the front row of the room, preferebly right in front of the teachers desk. This forces you to pay attention and minimizes distractions that other students can create. If you're sitting very close to the teacher, then while working in class you can very easily ask questions without being worried about "sounding dumb".

Let your teachers know that you're worried about your grades, and that you feel that you should be doing much better. Listen to each teacher's recommendations, and if necessary try to get in outside of class to meet with the teacher for some 1-on-1 help.

If you feel like the emotional stuff is overtaking you, use the counselors and psychologists that are on staff at your school. They're free, and they only deal with kids your age. They know everyone who works at the school and a ton of the kids at the school, and they will be able to hook you up with some really nice people that you can talk to.

There are so many people in your school that are waiting to help you, but they can't help unless they know you are seeking it. You've already recognized this problem in yourself, which is a HUGE step so congratulations! Just keep up with it and don't ever feel like you have to go through this alone.

Good luck!

Answer 3

Maybe try to take a step out of your shoes and view yourself from the outside. What has changed for you since your 4.0 GPA to now under a 3.0 a summer break can't be the reason, especially if you know your good in what you do. Depression can hurt but you need to try to not cry and worry about things that haven't happend yet. Time heals......

Answer 4

Those are signs of depression so you should tell your parents and go see your family doctor at least. Then your doctor will probably prescribe anti-depressants and tell you about counselors or psychologists to see as well. I was pretty certain I had depression in high school but never did anything about it. It wasn't until college that my parents actually realized something was wrong and made an appointment for me to see someone. The pills never really worked for me but it's at least good to have someone to talk to about your problems. Don't worry, things will get better.

Answer 5

RELAX! what you need is a teacher or counselor not a psychologist. maybe your teacher or counselor at school can help you out or give you suggestions on studying tips etc. I'm going through the same thing but except in college. =\ You're learning and educating yourself not for your parent's sake but for your own prospective future! Talk to your parents about how you feel, they may tell you to try harder, but atleast they'll know where you're comming from. get some sleep that might help you become more focus in school. the point is not to focus on your failures but to look forward to sucess!

Answer 6

Don't worry about disappointing your parents. Talk to them, NOW. You are 15 years old, a lot of things can come into play at your age. Do not leave your parents out of the loop. They will take the necessary steps by taking you to your medical doctor first, then if psy is necessary he will refer you to one. At 15 your boby is going through a lot of changes and it is hard. Stop putting pressure on yourself at this point. Have your started your period yet?

Answer 7

You said this is your first year in high school. Believe it or not, many Freshman experience depression, and sometimes it becomes severe. You're not crazy - you're going through a change that is greatly affecting you....it will pass with time, but in the meantime, you need treatment for the depression.

Talk to your Mom and Dad. Let them know how you feel and what is going on with you. They will help you through it, or help you find the help that you need.

Answer 8

Hi.
Sorry you're having problems.
The answers you're getting are good suggestions.
However, I have to say that you should get checked out by a medical doctor first. There's a few medical conditions that could be causing some problems for you.

If things are OK with tests that your doctor should run, then he should be able to recommend a next step.

Things will get better. Don't worry.

Answer 9

It really does sound like depression. You may need some help from a counselor. You can begin with your schools guidance counselor. Ask the school office for an appointment. share you symptoms and hopefully they will refer you to some suitable help. IF you do not get some results, please go to your parents and ask for assistance to see a professional counselor. And good luck to you!

Answer 10

It sounds like you need to see a doctor. I don't think you need a shrink, but you could have a hormonal inbalance which they use drugs like Prosac or Zoloft for. That doesn't make you a phyco or anything like that. You also need to talk to your parents. Surely they can see the weight loss ?? You need to keep up your strength girl. If you lose too much weight, it can affect your heart and you could eventually die of a heart attack. I hope this helps.