Me and my guy freind got together and it feels occourd...it seems as if we're only friends.. and well stay freinds forever..not boyfriend and girlfriend what should i do?
2006-10-12 17:32:49 · 5 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, really, we are going out but it feels soo weird and i don't want to tell him or..i'll crush his heart..should i tell him or not?
2006-10-12 17:36:15 · update #1
I posted this answer before for someone else...
I was EXACTLY where you are now. Best friend ever, figured that we could make a go at a relationship. I was stationed overseas so to progress with the relationship, we got married. We couldn't get ANYWHERE. We actually hung on eachother more as friends than after we were married. We had a chat one day and both decided on a divorce (after 3 months). After we signed the paperwork, we went out to lunch and spent the rest of the day touring the island. To this day, I can call her anytime and we're still best of friends.
Talk to him. If you are truely friends, communication should not be a problem.
2006-10-12 17:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to move forward, take small steps in the direction that you want to go. Instead of just hanging out, trying going out to dinner. If that's going to be too awkward, try just walking in a park and chatting, after all, the point of relationships is to get to know the other person better. As much as you know him now, there's always something new to learn. Basically, slowly nudge your way in that direction, if you really want to give him a hint (and if you haven't already done so) kiss him on the cheek at the end of what seems to be just another hang out to give him something to think about over night :)
I used to be the same way with my best guy friend, and even a kiss was something to blush about. Now, it's not so much of a big deal. Take initiative, my BF said that's something he finds nice. Good luck!
2006-10-13 00:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by kusainezumi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not always a bad thing. Guy friends are there more than girls when your bf breaks your heart
2006-10-13 00:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you meanand once something happens it gets weird! Just stay friends it's worth it ! to me at least! it's better to be honest with him and he will prob. respect you more !!
2006-10-13 00:36:28 · answer #4 · answered by LiBrA2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him and tell him how you are feeling
2006-10-13 00:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by MJane21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋