Why do girls like to play games, and lead you on that they like you.....They get you so crazy over them...that when you finally do ask them out they crush you and make you feel like a piece of ****., and what pisses me off is they do it to the nicest guys who would do anything for them and they dont appreciate that, they rather take the "asshole guy" who doesnt care about them at all and is just looking for some easy action.
Can anyone answer this?
2006-10-12 17:31:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, this question can go towards both males and females..=T don't tell me those 'assole' guys don't play nice girls..
here's what u gota do. don't go so crazy over someone that u do whatever for them, even though they Don't Deserve it. make sure
1) you are a GOOD person, good boyfriend
2) the girl u like is a Good person, good girlfriend material
3) she cares, respects, and wants to do right by you, and u care, respect, and want to do the same for her
how can u find that out?? get to know her better BEFORE you go "crazy"..and if she is bad to you, CUT IT OFF. be strong. be a man. because if u are a good Man, u will know how to make good decisions for yourself and those around you, u have to be able to take care of urself, and of her. and that means, if she is BAD to u, in order to take care of urself, u break it off and find someone else, and not let anyone treat u wrong.
good luck.
2006-10-12 17:42:27 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry this has happened to you, sometimes us girls we dont think about how we are hurting the person that likes us, i should know cause i have a friend who constantly flirts with guys like touching theyre abs and telling them things that are flirtacious, and when guys ended up liking her she would always be like ,"Oh but i didnt mean to do that, i dont like him like that", and that would seriously piss me off cause at the time that these situations came up she was interested in what u said," The typical asshole guy", i talked to her but she didnt seem to get it. I would never do it cause ive been there were a guy did that to me and u feel like **** after u hear the infamous words " I just see u as a friend" Not all girls, but some of us play these games and we do it cause we are too picky and we havent got hurt like that yet,and its not that we look for the good f**ck its just that were sometimes blind u can say, well i hope this helps u out
2006-10-13 01:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by onelove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mostly women do it because men do it too.
Men seem to take the big breasted, tiny waisted, easiest peice of as& they can get and then turn around and make it with another girl the next day.
Women just want to be statisfied and seeing as most of the good men are already taken or seem to not be available, they go for what they can get and if it means being with a complete jerk, if the sex is good, hell who cares right
well at least thats the attitude it seems everyone has these days.
honestly... thats a question that can not really be answered
2006-10-13 00:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is usually what you find in younger girls. They tend to want the bad boy.
They usually lead a guy on because the guy does things for them, they are users.
They do it because the nice guys let them and they know they can get away with it.
They don't know how to appreciate nicce guys at a younger age. They will do this until they are ready to settle down and then they will say dang there are no nice guys left and that tends to be because they turned the nice guys they knew at one time into assholes, because the nice guys got tired of the crap.
2006-10-13 00:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not all girls are that way, just a lot of them.
I remember reading that the reason that girls are attracted to 'the bad guy' is the confidence they have around them.
I know when I choose a guy I look for confidence.
Another thing I remember reading is that girls like a challenge, if a guys not a challenge some girls find the relationship boring.
2006-10-13 00:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by Butterflies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like you have learnt your lesson dude. nice guys finish last. never make the mistake of becoming friends with a girl beofre you show her you are interested. also girls dont wnat the nice guy. at least the ******** looks as though he can protect her. thats what girls want. girls use the nice guy cos they know that he like her. so she will get him to do stuff for her.
anyway stop being a nice guy, but you dont have to be an ********. confidence is the key my friend
2006-10-13 00:40:20 · answer #6 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wisdom of Solomon, the brain power of Einstien and the mind reading capabilities of a mystic will never be able to answer that. Suffice it to say they are women and don't drive yourself nuts looking for answers.
2006-10-13 00:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most girls seek for attention or if they're bad, they just like to play and practice with the guys they're not interested in. That's my opinion...and yeah most girls are attracted to the bad boys..that I don't know
2006-10-13 00:36:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her way of showing off like she's all that and..really..i did that once but who cares? its over..fall in love with a new girl
its called: Cat and Mouse...shes the cat..your the mouse
2006-10-13 00:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by Emily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
casue some girls r stupid. like me. haha. that is just what girls do. we flaunt our sleves and act nice but when things happen we dont go with the nice guy. sometimes i fall for a guy just because he had the courage to ask me out. but other girls dont.
2006-10-13 00:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋