okay my new girlfriend feels that my ex girl still has my heart and she will not believe that i am over her she thinks that just because me and my ex-girl dated for two years and about three weeks after me and her broke up my new girl became my girl that i did not have enough time to grieve but i am over her, yes she is my first love but my new girl has my heart and i care for her deeply like even though we have been only been dating for a month but i have known her and liked her for two years so it is like she just will not let that feeling go and it is hurting the progression of our relationship what should i do how can i prove it to her htat i am about her not my ex-girl
2006-10-12 17:17:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
write a beautiful letter to her and include some of the details of why you are in love with her, why she has your heart and how important she is to you.
2006-10-12 17:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only imagine you have already explained all of this to her. Maybe since the relationship (at this level) is new, it may take time for your new girlfriend to accept the fact you are over the former love. Try to create new traditions/memories with the new one and reminisce with her about them. Hopefully soon enough she will see just how happy you are with her. But, if this pattern was to exist after 6mo-1 year, I would seriously think about ending the relationship. I cannot have a relationship with someone who does not trust me... who is always second-guessing me. It is too negative and very frustrating. Good luck!
2006-10-13 00:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by bc_grl68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't trust you , then you must be giving her a reason not to trust you. Put her first, choose her over all of your other friends - especially your ex. don't hang out with your ex alone, always include others. Always let her know how much she means to you, and always make her feel wanted. she'll eventully warm up to you.
2006-10-13 00:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my opinion you should just be you.Let her know how you feel and if she can't see it in her heart not to believe what you tell her maybe she's not the one.But first make sure you really don't have any feelings for you ex deep down.If you want her to believe you do not have any contact with your ex,especially on the phone.Dont compare her to your new girl.Thats my opinion
2006-10-13 00:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by smacksjones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep "proving it".
Here's what I say...Girls are like cars...(DUCK!!! The usually swing for a punch here) You have the one you want. Yes, you look at other cars. Yes, you think of other cars that you've had. Yes, you sometimes wonder what it would be like driving some other car. BUT...You have the one that is perfect for you and will not give that up for anything.
2006-10-13 00:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all the issue here is about TRUST>>>>>Is there something wrong with your new girlfriend...why is she ALWAYS BRINGING UP YOUR EX.... maybe it is insecurity...why don't you just ask her nicely...say...'WHAT IS WRONG....WHY ARE YOU BRINGING UP MY EX..?.if you want this relationship to work????she sounds obsessive...but more insecure...oh brother...You can tell her....nicely..."if you keep bringing her up we cannot be together... because it BOTHERS ME!!!"...NOW ONLY DO THAT WHEN NOTHING ELSE WILL WORK...FOR HER TO LET GO OF YOUR EX-GIRLFRIEND,,,,
2006-10-13 00:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE REALLY NOTHING YOU CAN DO BUT CONTINUE TO
BE THERE FOR YOUR GIRLFRIEND. THE PROBLEM IS THAT
YOU WAS IN A REALTIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE FOR A LONG
PERIOD OF TIME, AND YO BROKE UP AND START DATING
THIS GIRL IN A SHORT SPAN SO YOUR FEELING ARE
STILL ALL OVER THE PLACE. SO IT UNDERSTANDABLE
THAT SHE MAY FEEL LIKE SHE DOES. A LOT TIME
YOU NEED TO GET CLOSURE FROM ONE BOOK BEFORE
YOU OPEN ANOTHER. SO GIVE IT TIME.
2006-10-13 00:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is very important in a relationship.I suggest a psychiatrist.
2006-10-13 00:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by ray ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be completely honest with her. Don't talk to your ex.
2006-10-13 00:29:06 · answer #9 · answered by Kimmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she's insecure right now,just give her time to accept it.
2006-10-13 00:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋