She says don't worry it'll happen. When I ask her what the deal is she says that "Im hard to read." and that "she's just not sure" Am I being played or what? This is very frustrating. Is this an indication that she's not really into me? She has expressed concern that I might not stick around.
2006-10-12 17:16:13 · 10 answers · asked by Matt M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it happens it happens, dont rush it it will fall into place
2006-10-12 17:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by greg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's just not ready to have sex with you. You shouldn't pressure her into something she's not ready for, it'll only make her not want too even more. When and if she's ready she'll let you know. Talk to her and see if there are any concerns she has, you said she thinks you might not stick around. I'd find out why she feels this way. I don't think you are being "played" I just think that she is still trying to decide if sh'es ready, and that's a decision she needs to make on her own. If you pressure her into having sex with you before she's ready it could cause resentment later on. I think you should back off and give her some space to think.
2006-10-12 17:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by moddedmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with not rushing her. I did everything but the actual "Act" till I got married. Personally, I just was really scared about getting pregnant. I wanted to be sure I was with my husband if something like that happened. Maybe she's the same way?
2006-10-12 17:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. She may not be ready. She may want more such as intimacy. However, you should ask yourself am I in this just for sex or something more. Remember, the longer you wait the more passionate and intense it will be, when those bodies entwine. And who knows, she make rock your world. Then you will say, it was worth the wait.... Hang in there champ..
2006-10-12 17:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by denise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you're a real guy you will admire her for her honesty and her ideals. intercourse could be a exceptional and a detrimental in a relationship and intercourse is a advantages for 2 people who actual love and care approximately eachother. She feels that if she has intercourse with you presently and the two considered one of you smash up then she has in simple terms wasted what she perspectives as useful to her. Viriginity for some females has greater of a deeper which ability then adult men can carry close and it takes a sturdy guy to not rigidity her into having intercourse. extraordinarily once you have the urge and urge for food. You as a guy could desire to talk to her and exhibit that your view and opinion and you're able to desire to choose how some distance you're keen to take your relationship. of course she has a some distance sighted view of her destiny and while you're actually not waiting for that then she needs to nicely known in the past any added emotions are in contact. It won't make you look as though a bad guy for breaking apart along with her becuase she can not supply you intercourse even though it will make you look as though a physically powerful guy in case you smash it off becuase you're actually not waiting to calm down and supply her the attention and affection she needs without the intimacy. the alternative finally is yours. If she is a physically powerful lady to you think approximately the postive she brings and the detrimental she brings. Then make a sensible determination!. in simple terms undergo in innovations genuine happiness isnt from the quantity of intercourse you have. however the quantity of fee you ought to your considerable different.
2016-11-28 02:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was with my man for 10 months before we did it and thats how i knew he was the one for me........just let it go it will happen when she is ready i would say she still is a virgin...i was
2006-10-12 17:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do, dont rush her!!!! that will only push her away from you more....just wait!!! And when she's ready than go for it, otherwise just wait.
2006-10-12 17:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by cutegirlie008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be a virgin and is scared to actually do it, or maybe she's embarrased to tell you that she's never actually had sex!!!
2006-10-12 17:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by kim 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's not ready yet, just wait.
2006-10-12 17:20:50 · answer #9 · answered by No Kitty Cat for you!!! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DONT RUSH HER
2006-10-12 17:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by Justin 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋