Ok..is it weird that I usually have an orgasm when Im masturbating rather than when Im actually having sex...and no its not my partner, hes great and does whatever I ask. Im blushing as I type this but I really wanna know is it weird or normal....cuz although I dont have anybody talking dirty to me or kissing my neck while Im touching myself it just almost everytime makes me get to the Big O
2006-10-12 17:12:38 · 33 answers · asked by ms_ricanluv88 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No need to be ashamed!
You know how to touch urself!!
You only need to talk to ur partner about foreplay and getting u excited!!
Relax a little when ur in bed with him and u mite actually ***!!
2006-10-12 17:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-21 22:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is completely normal for women. It has to do with the positioning of your clitoris on your body. Some women have clits that come in direct contact with the penis during intercourse which allows an orgasm during sex. Others are positioned away from the penis which means manual stimulation may have to be used. Trying different positions, namely the female on top, allows the female to dictate the angle and depth of penetration. I have dated several women of both types, and have been able to pleasure them all. It just takes being open with your partner and trying new things.
2006-10-12 17:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by james c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're normal. Most women find it easier to orgasm through masturbation than sex.
You're probably concentrating harder, and you don't have to think about anyone else's pleasure, and you are not feeling uncomfortable or embarrassed by anything.
Keep masturbating, because it helps you orgasm better during sex in the long run (unless you use a vibrator, in which case you'll probably make it more difficult).
2006-10-12 17:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just aren't with the right person. i don't know how old you are, but before i got married i was having the same problem. i never really had an orgasm many times until i met my husband.
i had a few partners, and they were all really good in bed, but they didn't have what it took for me. when i started sleeping with my current husband, he made me orgasm every single time. it wasn't that he was doing anything different than the other guys, but it was the love and passion that we had for each other that made it so much better.
2006-10-12 17:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Totally normal. Its hard for a woman to peak during vaginal intercourse. And we generally know what brings us to climax better than a guy, so we can just get there right away. Anyways...I say show your boy by example what you do to orgasm so that you can have more fun when you guys are doing the deed.
2006-10-12 17:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird. Some women don't ever have an orgasm with their partners. It's much easier to give yourself an orgasm than it is to have one from someone else.
2006-10-12 17:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by moddedmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally and completely normal. Lots of people have this problem. Try some sex toys with your partner then you can both get the big O together.
2006-10-12 17:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are completely normal. Vaginal penetration usually does not make women orgasm. It's all about the clitoris and good for you for figuring it out. Nothing to be ashamed of either. The greatest love of all is when you love yourself.
2006-10-12 17:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by Brainiac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal. Some women never have them with a partner, but always alone. But don't let that stop you from enjoying it with your partner. It may happen for you still.
2006-10-12 17:16:46 · answer #10 · answered by T J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋