just wondering. im not gonna make bad decisions. i just wanna know your opinion.
2006-10-12 16:50:41 · 12 answers · asked by courtneybabexoxo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just kiss if anything and that is it. I can tell you right now, I work with people, especially girls that get pregnant at such a young age and have kids and they usually get stuck on public assistance and don't have too much fun
2006-10-12 16:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by showtimegk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How far should a 14 year old girl be willing to go with a (I'm assuming 14 year old) boy?
As a mother: Holding hands walking no further than four houses away in broad daylight on days that end in R. Not the answer you wanted?
Ok, honestly, I do remember what it's like to be fourteen. It's scary because you have all these hormonal feelings and rushes that you haven't quite gotten the hang of yet.
Kissing is plenty far enough for a 14 year old. The most important thing for you to remember is not to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable, or that you have to be talked into doing.
Don't fall for the "If you loved me, you'd do this for me" bit. If he loves you at all, he wouldn't try to talk you into it.
I know it probably doesn't feel like it, but you will be grown up before you know it - don't put yourself into a situation that will make that happen any sooner than it has to. Enjoy your childhood, it'll be gone soon enough.
I'll give you the same advise I gave my own kids (though they were a wee bit older): I'd rather you don't have sex until your grown, but I'm not stupid enough to believe 100% that you won't try it. So - BE CAREFUL and if you decide to have sex, USE A CONDOM! Yes, they cost a little bit and it can be embarrassing to buy them, but it's a lot less so than pregnancy tests and babies.
2006-10-13 00:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by DetroitBrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 you should be worrying about fashion and friends and music.You shouldn't have to worry about gettting pregnant. So many young people are ruining their lives by having sex too young. If you had a kid right now, what would that do to your life? kissing and showing affection is fine.but theres a reason they call sex 'grown up stuff'its best left for responsible adults!
2006-10-12 23:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by lucky girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STRAIGHT TO YOUR CLOSET AND STAY THERE UNTIL YOU ARE 18. I'M JUST KIDDING. YOU ARE ONLY 14 I WAS PLAYING BARBIES AT THAT AGE, DON'T RUIN YOUR LIFE AT THE AGE OF 14 YOU DON'T WANT TO GET A STD OR A BABY. PLEASE CONCENTRATE ON SCHOOL FOR RIGHT NOW, YOU HAVE YOU WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU. BEFORE YOU KNOW IT YOU WILL BE 21 YEARS OLD AND LOOKING BACK AND REMEMBER ALL OF THE MISTAKES AND STUPID THINGS THAT YOU DID. I KNOW BECAUSE I AM 44 YEARS OLD RIGHT NOW AND I CAN REMEMBER LIKE IT WAS YESTERDAY THAT I WANTED TO BE 21 AND NOW WHERE HAVE ALL THE YEARS GONE. THEY GO BY FASTER THEN YOU CAN EVER IMAGINE. PLEASE IF YOU MUST JUST KISS AND THAT IS ALL.
2006-10-12 23:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by tinkerbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not far....just to the locker rooms in school or to the corner of the block :)
you are young, dont try to grow up so quickly, leave the necking and making out to the 16 year olds
2006-10-12 23:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing if you cant spell far, you have some issues. and i think you should stop at about now, yeah get rid of the bf and get you spelling down then maybe well see how far you should go.
2006-10-12 23:53:01 · answer #6 · answered by tigger32188 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 14 its just making out. nothing until your over 18. then no one will will get in trouble.
2006-10-13 00:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by Player 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time and dont be in a rush, and how old is the guy?
2006-10-12 23:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nowhere, nohow! 14 u need to be worrying about other things that stank boys. you'll have enough time to worry about them.
2006-10-12 23:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by April J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she shouldn't go too FOR if she doesn't know how to spell FAR......
2006-10-12 23:52:44 · answer #10 · answered by rach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋