ok there is this boy that i like in school... and he is always flirting with me in class cause he sits next to me but sometimes i see him in the hall ways talking and hugging other girls.... i dont no if he likes me... he asked me once if i thought he was sexy and i told him yes but again we were flirting or so i think... we always lugh and stuff but their are days were he comes and he is mad n then i think that he doesnt like me.... how do i know if he likes me ow can i tell other than asking some one to ask him or asking him myself... i really dont no what to do.... he doesnt have a irl because he told me... he is really popular and im afraid to ask becuase what if he doesnt like me and he talks and brags about it to his other freinds and tha school finds out and i sound like a dumbass.lol..how can i test to see if he likes me
2006-10-12 16:36:26 · 6 answers · asked by SofaKingBored23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me first say that it is very normal what you are going through. Millions of questions and many more doubts and uncertainties fly through someone's head with this sort of thing.
But please keep in mind that this is true for boys as well. Boys (and men as well) have an innate fear of rejection -- girls and women seem to handle it quite well, I have found, but it seems to hit guys like a ton of bricks.
He does need to summon up the courage to ask you out, however. It's all a part of growing up and gaining confidence in himself. Be patient with him; if he really likes you and would like to go out with you, then he will do it eventually.
2006-10-12 16:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by calledkevinalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is for all girls that say the same thing. TAKE A CHANCE! a guy notices a girl who comes forward and is up front with what she wants. we like honesty we like straightforwardness. sure people will talk thats because they lack the confidence to do what they really feel. just dont be easy and if he brags tell him(in front of his friends) your not interested anymore.try something new and you wont be sorry you missed out on the opportunity.
2006-10-13 00:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get the same ideas stuck in my head! One day i think a guy likes me, but then the next thing I don't, cause he will do something to make me think he doesn't. He's probably just a bigass flirt! You can ask him who he likes and if he just smiles and says someone, be like "who" with a cute little smile on your face. Sorry thats the best i can do, i get the same thoughts in my head, but i never have enough courage to go and ask the guy, but lets hope you have more courage then me.
Good luck
2006-10-12 23:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by Korri babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need to love and to be loved.
Most of our issues could be solved fairly easily, if we have our loved one supporting us.
If you are hurt by a former ex, well you just need to get yourself up and start searching for someone who deserves your love.
Don't ever be shy .. that won't ever help you .. and you'll have lots to lose. Do what your heart tells you it's right.
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2006-10-12 23:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him in a letter as someone else then tell a friend to give it to him.
2006-10-12 23:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by Jason & Milly T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didnt u ask this ? before i wont answer it again
2006-10-12 23:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋