this guy i was talkin to is being an a**. he wanted to knoe if i was still interested in talkin to him. and i said i just saw him as a friend, he wanted the truth so i told him and also i havent talked to him for 2 weeks. well he told me that he wasted his money on his high fone bills and all my "im srys" didnt mean anything to him that i just said them to make me feel better. im sry if this is so confusing but i am very sad mad and confused. and i thought i was being nice, y did he have to say he wasted his tyme and money on me...:(
2006-10-12 16:35:19 · 13 answers · asked by Aimee S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie already i can tell you this. No one will make you feel better. Why? Because you can only help yourself. People feeling sorry for you wont help anything.
Guys will say anything to make a girl feel like ****,too. Nething to get them thinking about what they have done/said to make them feel like it's THEIR fault..just b/c they've been rejected, etc etc.
You have no reason to feel bad. He's the one who feels bad, so in response he's trying to make u feel the same way.
Get over it girl, he's wasting YOUR time..and YOUR thoughts.
Listen to some good music, "bringing sexy back" always makes me wanna dance and forget about stupid sad crap..lol
try it out. goodluck
2006-10-12 16:39:21 · answer #1 · answered by Vanessa G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause the chance of being involved with you didn't work out and you probably could have told him long ago but didn't or wouldn't.So now he feels that all the time and money he spent trying to get close was for nothing.Deep down he may have pass up trying with someone else to be with you and now he has lost both.But at lease you told him the truth and he's gone,if he is or was mad he'll get over it and so will you.Next time you meet someone if you just want to be friends,say so up front.
2006-10-12 23:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becauses he's upset and angry. People use words that hurt others when they are angry. You have to learn to accept them for that or not. He probably said that because he thought it wouold work and it didn't and he wanted to hurt you the way you hurt him so he told you you wasted his money with the phone will. You are just fine and will be hang in there. No one is ever a waste of time or money in this world. Wait for the right guy don't push he'll come when the time is right you'll be glad you did. I know I am.
2006-10-12 23:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know we can be a** holes. Please don't give up. People these days are so self centered. Out for personal gain. Don't close your heart or your mind cause one or ten people are pig headed. Spend your life searching for someone who is willing to take the "Journey" with you. Hope is in the eye of the beholder. If he is worried about money let him go. He doesn't want you he wants $.
2006-10-12 23:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by jr128128 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did your part... you let him know where you stood... he's the one who chose to keep calling you.
He apparently either didn't understand the meaning of "sorry"...or didn't intend to give up easily.
He didn't stop to think that he was continually causing your precious time to be wasted, because of him not accepting your polite way of saying "no."
He just said those things because he wanted to be more than friends, but didn't get what he wanted... & he got mad.
2006-10-12 23:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz he liked u, and he wanted answers to know if ur really interested, but in that 2 weeks u didn't answer so the calls, and things he did really was a waste for him
2006-10-12 23:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by burning ice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he were a good friend, he would be disappointed but would still respect your decision. If the money he spent was predicated on dating you, then he's not worth being friends with.
2006-10-12 23:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounded like he wanted some A ss and you weren't supplying it
2006-10-13 00:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by John H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sound like he got his feelings hurt so he hurt yours!!! he will get over it and you will too- give ita little time= D
2006-10-12 23:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by Diane W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LEARN TO FLY HIGH NEVER LOOK BACK LIVE AND SMILE SOMETIME THERE LOSERS CRY BABY LOL YOU SHOULD ALWAYS BE HONEST OPEN ....
2006-10-12 23:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋