Guys I need advice!?

Question

I had a guy friend who I had last year but now doesn't really talk to me at all. Last year I was always hyper with my friend when I saw him in the only class we were in together and used to flirt with him loudly like "Lets have sex" or "You're sooo sexy and hot" or like "I like to rub oil all over myself then wrestle with you in bed" Just stuff like that, I was kidding I didin't make it that obvious though becasue me and my friend would get a laugh out of it. He usually took it all with a scared expression or a laugh. One class he purposely stared at my boobs whenever he talked to me and he knew I knew so we laughed. I never knew if he liked me because after I got out of the class and he got with his other friends he ignored me totally expect maybe to wave to me. Another time I was sitting at a table with him and my two girlfriends and slid my foot up his leg to his.. just to see what would happen and he said he had to go to the bathroom. Was that to get away from me or what? confused!

Answer 1

some guys just don't know how to react properly with girls. I am dealing with this with my son right now. He is probably very interested but just does not know how to express his feelings and still be a "man". Just cool it down a little, and try and be a good friend and build on that

Answer 2

It sounds to me like you have a pretty big thing
going for this fellow and that there is little I can
do to encourage you more in that regard.

However, let me warn you about the dangers of
unprotected sex, etc., etc., etc. Don't get caught
in that trap.

Now, all of your flirtations have obviously gotten to
this young man. I don't know if you overdid it and
scared him off, or not. You will have to test the water
with your toe, so to speak... I recommend that you
bring some really good treat to school for desert at
lunch. Invite him to join you in the Cafeteria to share
the desert. Sit by yourself, and let him join you.

If he comes alone and sits with you, you have made
a conquest. If he brings friends with him to sit with you,
you have hooked a shy one.

In any event, when he is alone with you, spend a few minutes "listening to him." Offer a word or two or gentle encouragement, and let him speak about anything he chooses. Your job from then on is to let him talk and you support his ideas and his subject with "positive" comments on the same subject. if you cannot relate to the subject at all, try leading the conversation around to something you think he might enjoy talking about. Don't go to the subject of sex at the drop of a pin, or wink of an eye. Let that be something you both yearn for... After all, do you just want to mess with him once (he'll run and tell), or is he attractive enough to you that you want him as yours all alone (your special and private friend) for a long, long time.. You must be in control.

Answer 3

Well Katie, I think you are comming on too strong! What is it that you want from him if it isn't what it looks like? It seems like he may be alittle shy or nervous when it comes to sex. If you want to have a relationship with him, you should slow things down big time and get to know him for who he really is and for him to know you. I think he gets nervous when you talk dirty to him even though he may like the attention. Flirting is great when it is done with alittle class and when it isn't telling everyone in the room what you are thinking. As for why he had to go to the bathroom? He probably HAD to leave when he did or else leave later with a tent popped in front of him if you know what I mean. You probably scared him off.

Answer 4

And girls wonder why they get raped?
Girl, you went around doing dangerous things. Sex is serious adult business, and you had no business teasing the guy like you did. That was more than childish, but just plain stupid! If you didn't intend to mean you wanted his body, then you should never have said you did! That's mean. No wonder he looked surprised! Running your foot up to his crotch, and you don't know what that did to him? Girl, I'd stay away from you, too. You are dangerous. You're the kind of girl that gets guys put in jail, and they know it!

Guys are going to look at boobs; they are nice eye candy. You show them off, we look.. We don't have to like you, or even know you. Simple as that

Answer 5

i think you scared him. well with what you showed/did to him, i would be surprised if he ever considers having a serious relationship with you.

i know you are just flirting with him. but there are things you did that are way too much for most guys. well they might be interested with you, but i can assure you that it would mostly be for the sex part only.

there are ways to flirt with a guy while still being decent and desirable. i know a lot of girls who are good at doing it. i think you overdid it. and if ever he liked you before, he might be turned-off now after all those things. Sorry.

Answer 6

he has to get to the bathroom because he was turned on by you...he obviously wants to hide it..and maybe he ignores you sometimes because he is attracted to you and he thinks you will just laugh at him coz all the time you were just joking about it..

Answer 7

When you grow up, You'll learn to attract a man that will love and respect you.
Until then feel free to enjoy your childhood.

Answer 8

Guess what? He's got a crush on someone else, and that's why he's forgotten to tease you and flirt with you. For now, at least.

Answer 9

yes

Answer 10

if he stare at ur boob he defenetly like u but he is nervous.