ok there is this boy that i like in school... and he is always flirting with me in class cause he sits next to me but sometimes i see him in the hall ways talking and hugging other girls.... i dont no if he likes me... he asked me once if i thought he was sexy and i told him yes but again we were flirting or so i think... we always lugh and stuff but their are days were he comes and he is mad n then i think that he doesnt like me.... how do i know if he likes me ow can i tell other than asking some one to ask him or asking him myself... i really dont no what to do....
2006-10-12 16:23:50 · 12 answers · asked by SofaKingBored23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he just sometimes ignores me and others times he flirts with me
2006-10-12 16:27:20 · update #1
how can i test to see if he likes me?
2006-10-12 16:28:48 · update #2
Sleep with him. If he doesn't put a bag over your head, chances are he likes you.
2006-10-16 00:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by Wiley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright. first of all. in this question. age does matter. so i'm gonna ask how old you both are. after that im gonna say..his behavior sounds like every other guy in high school..or NE school for that fact...guys love attention, they love to be well "loved" in a sense of the whole "do you think im sexy" thing..o jesus this guy already sounds like quite the "Catch" *cough* sarcasm *cough* but neway enough of being negative but im just saying-ive been around..i know this stuff..my bf used to be that way..before he met me. You can't just try to guess if he likes you or not. he might be one of those guys who dont want a serious girlfriend and just want fwb (Friends with benefits) or just date around *shrugs* but then again maybe he just isn't sure if ur the right girl to settle down with. u know? guys can be VERY tricky, and VERY confusing..but im gonna tell u a secret. it's the easiest way to figure this out..
TALK TO HIM.
Sweetie, communication may be blossoming with texting and cell phones, but simple TALKING still exists! I know it seems really hard, but simply talk to him alone and see what he really does think about you. Ask him if he's wanting a relationship or "just friends" no matter how much u hate hearing it-you will at least 10 times in ur lifetime..lol. But you wanna know. so go for it girl. =) Don't be dragged aroud the merry go round like this..it sucks. i know.
goodluck =)
2006-10-12 23:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by Vanessa G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is not to worry so much about it. If he's flirting with you, then great! Just don't take things to the point where you're thinking the complete opposite thing that he is. And ALWAYS BE YOURSELF. You're probably a great, smart, sweet, down-to-earth person. So stay that way. If he doesn't like you for who you are, then he's not worth your time. Tell him to go suck an egg. ^_^
2006-10-12 23:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by GreenDay roxxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this wont be what you want to hear. guys who act like that dont know who or what they want and will usually cheat. i'd actually advise that the best way to find out if he likes you is not to flirt back. make him work for you. men are like animals in that they enjoy the hunt. when they have to work for it they want it more. like it seems girls who'll go out and do things with any guy are popular but the guys just laugh at them behind their backs. Make him work for it and he'll either want it more or he wasnt that interested in the first place. Sorry but thats the truth, which isnt always what we want to hear.
2006-10-12 23:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by metalmaiden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch and see if he looks at you when you aren't directly looking at him. a sure sign is when a guy keeps looking at you even though you are not looking back. also you could try not talking to hime one day. He may think somethigns up and if he likes you he will try to talk to you lots the next day,.
2006-10-12 23:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by mommysrock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iuno to me it really really seems like hes just one of those guys that is just playing with ure head sorry to say... if he really likes u hes gonna work to get you... test him out a bit... but dont be surprised if he just bails out ... being mad at you for no apparent reason is a big sign hes really just having fun...
2006-10-12 23:26:39 · answer #6 · answered by XitachiX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, just flirt for a while see what happpens make eye contact alot ok thats all i can say but u should have someone ask him for u!!!!!!1
2006-10-12 23:33:07 · answer #7 · answered by catiegraham 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl he probly got temper probs it probly ok anyway he might not have had a great day with his parents so if u have proof he don't don't like u then dump him like a bag o trash otherwise no...
this ok?
2006-10-12 23:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by pistoluser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him yourself, alot of men hug their lady friends, this day and age it means nothing... and if he doesn't like you, don't sweat it theirs plenty of hotties out there.
2006-10-12 23:26:17 · answer #9 · answered by Little_Lilth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you should talk to him yourself that would make him respect you more. Teenage boys are strange like that! :)
2006-10-12 23:27:50 · answer #10 · answered by LadyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋