2006-10-12 16:21:55 · 12 answers · asked by joshjones007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope i went out with a guy that slept with 300 women and he was only 35 he started when he was 12. i didn't find out until year in the relationship
2006-10-12 16:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by dark rockchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah probably. it also depends on if you had full intercourse or oral. If it wasn't intercourse it would be somewhat different. And it depends on how many of them were in a relationship with you or just a fling sort of thing. I found out an ex had 13 partners. we never had sex, but I saw him differently. and i'm glad i didn't have sex with him because i would have been more hurt after the breakup if i realized how many he had sex with. I'd feel gross too or used maybe. It's not always the amount but why it happened and to what extent. It's still quite a bit of people. Just make sure you are honest with any future girlfriends in case it might bother them. If not then great for you.
2006-10-12 23:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT everything needs to be discussed. Numbers are not important. What IS important is having the conversation of sexual health. Have you ever had unprotected sex? Have you ever been tested? Would you prefer I wear condoms or would you like to use something else? (always use condoms with a new partner you do not KNOW for sure is clean) No its not a sexy conversation at all but it could save your life or hers or the embarrassment of getting an STD and having to tell your partner. I have been with more men than I care to admit to myself sometimes but I am healthy and clean and have been tested inside and out and negative for everything and now I am engaged and monogamous. People can "look clean" but you can never really tell.
Long story short numbers are not important and can make one person feel inadequate and the other like a whore. Don't share that but do share sexual health info.
2006-10-12 23:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who you compare yourself to. I know guys that are twins one has slept with approxiamately 100+ girls and the other has slept with no more than 20 or 30. It's kind of funny though.
As long as you don't have a s.t.d. I wouldn't really care, but I say make sure you always play safe.
2006-10-12 23:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by UNapologetic! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not as long as you aren't afraid of monogamy now. And you would have to get an HIV test and show me the paperwork. But assuming you are disease free and willing to commit, I would have no problem being with a man who loves sex.
2006-10-12 23:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you don't have a sexually transmitted disease (I will have to see your medical report. LOL), I am fine for going out with you....but knowing you've been with 18 women, this tells me you are "easy" and is almost equivalent with a male prostitute.
2006-10-12 23:55:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldnt bother me about how many girls you have been with as long as you were loyal to me and have no std's. Other than that you could be a hoe as long as you faithfull.
2006-10-12 23:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by Kendra K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...no 18 is not to much...and i would not be bothered because u r with me and as long as we r happy the past does not matter.
2006-10-12 23:24:06 · answer #8 · answered by LVE_1988 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
naw not really, depending on when you started. but 18 doesn't seem like a lot ( i don't think)
2006-10-12 23:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, look everyone I slept with 18 girls! No really, I did! Oh please believe me, its very important that you believe me!!!*sobs*
2006-10-12 23:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by RamsGod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋