heartbroken?

Question

im heartbroken from this guy. i can tell alot that he likes another girl cause he doesn't pay attention to me like he used to and he is doing it to another girl =[ i don't want to face him anymore but i have to because he sits next to me in science and study hall

i DON"T want to tell him how i feel about him and i know you will say don't let a boy depress you. but i can't get him out of my mind. the things i hear him say to her just keeps playing over and over again in my head. 2nd time my heart is broken from this boy. but i can't stop loving him.

i don't know what to do anymore
help?

but we act like brother and sister, and if i tell him how i feel the things will be awkward and ill never be able to face him. and im a realllly shy person when it comes to these kinds of things

Answer 1

you will have many love's in your life, it takes time to get over being hurt,but you do recover and you will meet more boy's, it's all part of growing up, it isn't the hurt that is so important but how you respond to it.

Answer 2

It's always hard to stop loving someone. That's the problem with love, it ends some how or another. Even if you found perfect love, one day that person will die. So love ends. It's hard on us because we are human and we have a heart. If he is worth fighting for go on and fight for him. Tell him whats up. You will either find out that A. he didn't know you liked him that way. B. He never thought of you that way C. He thought you loss interest. Then at least when you know the truth you can be able to start to move on.

Answer 3

I know how much it hurts when someone makes you feel like you've been replaced. You sound like such a sweetheart, and I'm sure you had a lot to offer this guy. It really sounds like he doesn't deserve you. I know that's not what you want to hear right now because he's the one on your mind and all you can think about is how to get his attention back on you, and how much it hurts knowing he's interested in her. This is the second time he's broken your heart, and instead of letting the things he says to her play in your head over and over, you have to do what's right for you and get back the self esteem he's taken from you. And the best way to start is to ignore him, and what he's saying to her. Just keep your head up, don't let him know it bothers you, and try to get your mind on someone else, like a guy who'd appreciate, and respect you. And the right guy will only have eyes for you.
Best of luck to you, and remember, you do deserve someone who's totally into you.

Answer 4

You have to think what you really want out of this relationship. Are you content to remain friends although your heart longs to be with him? If it tears you up listening to the things he says to other women, you need to make a choice. I think that you should talk to him and tell him how you feel and if your friendship is secure enough, either things will work out for you, ie. you may start a relationship with him, or you move on and continue to be friends, or they don't. You have to do what's best for you and sometimes making those decisions aren't easy. Talk to him and tell him how you feel, don't worry about the "what ifs".

Answer 5

distract yourself. maybe talk to a kid around you instead of sitting there quietly. i know that you want to talk to him and you would love for him to like you... but that is something you have no control over. as hard as it is i think the best thing to do is just try and forget him... especially if he has already done this to you before. to him, you may just be a chase and once he has you he gets tired of you.. and as cruel as that sounds, im sorry, you have to realize that you are better than that and there is some wonderful guy out there for you who thinks of you more than just a chase and will never hurt you like this guy has. but remember, the only way you can find mr. right, is if you put yourself out there.

Answer 6

don't take things like that ... I am pretty sure you are a smart girl... and yes it is silly for you to get depress for a boy... but... it is normal.
why don't you give your self a break... just relax a little bit and step a side... I know this is difficult but you have to do it.... just let him be or let them be and don't show your weakness to them, change a little bit your hair, makeup, how you dress what ever makes you feel good, pretty, happy.... this too will end up... be smart and strong you can talk to your self... do it... take it as a test. good luck.

Answer 7

OMG THIS IS FREAKY...bcuz i have the same problem. i really wish i knew what to tell you but i really dont know myself. i feel like crap but you know what? i find it easy to get ur mind off of him when ur w/ a friend who makes you laugh a lot, or when your really busy with skool like homework or club meetings or even if your in sports. what i do is put 100% of my focus into that and i feel like i'm doing better in skool. but still i guess all that can heal you in the end is time... i still really like the guy but its quite obvious he doesnt care about me the way he used to..hes moved on and so should i...and you.
i hope you feel better... dont worry your not alone out there!! : (

Answer 8

is it possible to change science classes? Out of sight out of mind! I know it hurts, and trust me it will only get worse when you get older and really love a guy

Answer 9

You would be able to move on a lot quicker if you would just tell him,then do it.But if you like to suffer,leave it the way it is.Your going to have to choose for yourself.

Answer 10

If i were you i would tell him how i felt. He may have just got tired of waiting around for you. He might of thought that you didn't like him and thought that he didn't have a chance with you.