i take her out every week///movies,bars,hotels,etc.....if by any chance it happens that i have little or no money,and i ask her to invite me,she always says he has no money,and that she is not supposed to invite me ........is it okey that she never spend money on me.............//she makes more money than me////////
2006-10-12 16:04:25 · 8 answers · asked by pdrfer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lavender......i am not asking her to pay the bills....i just would like her to invite me when i run out of money....and that does not happen very often....maybe once every two month
2006-10-13 05:33:43 · update #1
She is your girlfriend so you guys are no longer dating...you are now in a relationship so there should be no reason why she isn't spending money on you occassionally...Stop taking her out so much if it's hurting your pockets and when she asks...tell her you are broke and need to cut back. If she can't respect that then she's not worth it.
2006-10-12 16:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old school when dating they man is suppose to pay. Be creative instead of going out every week stay home and rent a movie from blockbuster and have pizza.
2006-10-12 16:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never let my boyfriend do all the asking and all the paying. Even if he when he wouldn't let me pay when we went out, I would always surprise him by making dinner and picking up movies, or picking him up a little gift or a card just to say thanks and I love you. That's just the way I am though.
2006-10-12 16:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by jblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this isn't ok. I'm not saying you show someone you're their friend by spending money on them,but friends should be generous and put their friends first. If you do something for a friend a friend should be willing to do the same for you. If theyknow they're not willling to do so they shouldn't accept it when you do it for them. You should ask your friend about this.
2006-10-12 16:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be equal .. the problem is you spoiled her too fast now she expects you to do everything .. stop taking her out and if she wants to go out she'll start paying
2006-10-12 16:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have fought for years for equal rights, but as women are,
they make their own rules!
2006-10-12 17:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mosez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's OK... C'mon, its 2006- a woman should have no problem chipping in for dates once in a while too...
2006-10-12 16:08:10 · answer #7 · answered by bellagirlinchicago 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're the man, why should she pay for you.
2006-10-12 16:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by lavendergirl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋