Because of her I started drinking (out of loneliness. No, I don't have any other issues.)
Because of her I went on antidepressants.
I can't tell her how much I like her because she sees me as her brother and also because she's got a boyfriend. I was also wonder if it would be wrong if I asked for her number.
Should I? Should I tell her and get it off my chest or keep it bottled up? I can't stop thinking about her.
2006-10-12 16:00:14 · 7 answers · asked by wad up 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you should tell her.
Clearly everything is her fault.
She will be happy at a job well done.
2006-10-12 16:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't told her how you feel, then by all means do so in a respectful and sensitive way :) If she does not reciprocate, it is then your job to move on. If you are nervous about being rejected, think about what you are going through NOW without knowing how she feels. It doesn't seem as if it could be worse because if, say for example, she does reject you, at least you can move on. I wish you the best in these frustrating and hurtful times. Please be careful with your own heart and soul by trying not to pollute it with drugs etc.....no one is worth that. peace, friend.
2006-10-12 23:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by D W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're under the impression that this is all about her, but it isn't, it's about you. You are having the problem. I've got news for you: you DIDN'T start drinking 'because of her', and you DIDN'T start taking anti-depressants because of her. If your feelings for someone who didn't reciprocate them caused you to discover inner misery, than the inner misery is still yours. I'm assuming you're an adult, or nearly. Adults take responsibility for their own feelings and don't blame people who don't return their affections. No one owes you their love just because you're attracted to them.
I'm very sorry for your pain, but it will not get better until you realize that it is yours to heal, and doesn't involve anyone but you.
2006-10-12 23:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her at least you will get it off your chest and who knows maybe she can help you in some way.
2006-10-12 23:05:13 · answer #4 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow me and u hav similar situations but the other way around im the girl in love with a guy and he sees me as a great great friend nothing more at elast i tihnk so!! well i know its hard but u have to tell her just do it (lol)im gonna tell him sooner or later!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-12 23:07:59 · answer #5 · answered by catiegraham 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask for her number
if she refuses,, then u have to move on
i know i did and i will tell you it wasn;t easy
but people like that aren't worth it
2006-10-12 23:03:28 · answer #6 · answered by silentstalkerhaha 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no. just leave her alone.
you are a weak bastard
2006-10-12 23:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋