I guess I'm shy but my b/f always wants me to talk but I'm more of a listener and dreamer. He talks alot.How should I deal with this problem?
2006-10-12 15:55:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't change for other people. I, too, am a listener. In this world of talkers, listeners are rare gems.
If he is trying to push you into being someone you're not, sit him down and explain that you're just not that type of person and he makes you feel bad when he gets on your case to talk more. If he refuses to respect that, perhaps it's time to look at your relationship and honestly wonder if you are in a healthy relationship.
2006-10-12 16:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,
Just get confindence. Trust me I was the same way and I kind of am still. You just got to find something to talk about. Anything and everything. Even if it makes yourself look dumb. You just got to let it all out and TALK!
2006-10-12 16:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by erica p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well get into what he talks about and then you'll get used to it. Also hang around loud and talkitive people. And before you know it, you'll be as loud and talkative as him. Don't worry about your insecurities either!! They are bad!!! That's another factor of shyness. So just relax...
2006-10-12 15:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by Mariaish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋