Ive been walking with this girl after class everyday. I had the feeling that she didnt want me around anymore. so I asked her if she did and she said she does like having me around. Whenever I call her I can never get a hold of her. I ask her why she never answers and she said that she doesnt always have her phone with with her. To me that sounds like B.S, but I dont know. Is she just messin with me?
2006-10-12 15:51:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She could be telling the truth. Do you leave her a message and ask her to call back. If so, does she call back? If you don't leave a message, then leave her a message and ask her to call you. If she doesn't then ask her why....
2006-10-12 15:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by shar 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If every time you call and she does not answer your call maybe she is not by her phone. If you leave a message and she don't return your call then stop calling. You never know what she is telling her friends about you. She can be like here is big money again. Next time you walk with her engage in conversation. See how she acts. If you feel like you are irritating her just by talking to her find someone else to walk with after class. Here are something you can look for rolling of the eyes before she answer your question, lets out a sigh, if she walks out of class before you and doesn't wait look for the small things. She may tell you that she doesnt want you around cause she dont want to hurt your feelings. I say starting next week don't walk with her and see how she reacts. If she blows it off as though she don't care then she is messing with you. If she comes up to you and ask why arent you walking away with me anymore then you are not bothering her.
2006-10-12 23:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jazzie_J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give her one more chance. Then, tell her to take a hike. Tell her you need to call her at home. Leave a message with her mom. Tell her what her daughter said to you and that you did not think it was very cool. Say, "nobody likes to be treated that way".
I went through the same thing with a tease that was so wishy washy it was not even funny. Good luck.
2006-10-12 22:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by rasckal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say if you're getting a "gut feeling" that she doesn't seem to want you around, you'd probably be right. Sorry to say, but this girl is probably just trying to be polite when talking to you in person, but when you call her she doesn't need to be polite, she can just chalk it off as "oh, I didn't have my phone."
Take my advice, be up-front with this girl and find another one that's worth your time. :)
2006-10-12 22:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by nsmith4787 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its sounds like she doesnt like having u around, she might feel uncomfortable or maybe ur just clingy around her. and she will never tell u that straight to ur face so dont bother asking
plus she may not want ppl to think u guys r together
2006-10-12 22:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first thing...don't ask again why she doesn't answer or if she wants you around. it shows that you're insecure and is an immediate turn-off to most chics. second....lay off for a while and see what happens. if she really likes having you around she will call you
2006-10-12 22:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by knej.29642 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that she is messing with you. It seems very odd that she never has her Phone with her(HELLO). You had that feeling that she does not want you around, go with your Gutfeeling. Maybe she is just polite and does not want to hurt your feelings.
2006-10-12 22:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by lousylaus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup she's messin with you big time mate!!! she is just waiting for another person to come along untill she ditched you in the gutter... go find anaother girl to walk with to.. hehehe
2006-10-12 22:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by iznogoud 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You read like a true stalker in the making! Way to go! Keep up this pattern of insecurity and you'll end up with a rape charge like that uncle of mine that I hate! GOOOOOOOO YOU!!!
2006-10-12 22:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she may be playing "hardto-get" or she may just be using you to make someone else jealous.
try to avoid her and pretend to be busy. she might be the one to do the "chasing" for you.
don't be following her around. make yourself important to her by not being so available all the time.
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2006-10-12 22:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by jedi_rei 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋