How do you know when to ask a friend out... lets say you have been talkin a while but you REALLY like them but dont know if they like you back... wut should you do?? should you ask them out?? i want some real answers...
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2006-10-12 15:28:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go on a date first. You can talk a lot and that helps, but a date puts you in a situation where you have to pay attention to the other person and how they act. A date doesnt mean you are commited to the person yet so that may help you. And if you had a good time on the date end the night on a good note and ask them out. My current boyfriend did that and it was very nice. I met him while i was dating my ex of 2 years and my new man and i got to know each other very well so after i dumped my ex my new man and i before being commited in a "relationship" walked around holding hands, kissing, then after about a week or so of my being single he asked me to dinner, showed up at my door with a rose in his hand, looking absolutely fantastic in all black, and had a good dinner, then back to my place (dorm) and he asked me out. My friends have said that its much better to go on a date before going out with the person, it does help to get to know them. Goodluck in your endeavors.
2006-10-12 15:35:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy then you should go ahead and ask him out, waiting on him to make the first move is a bad idea, seeing as how most guys are to shy to make the first move, if he's been hanging out with you then chances are that he likes you too, I mean would you hang out with someone you didn't like? just tell him how u feel,he'll probably be siked that he didn't have to be the one to say it first!! good luck
2006-10-12 22:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
test the waters first. some guys only want to be friends. flirt a little and see where that gets you. if so try touching a little even hugging and eventually kissing him on the cheek and see how he reacts. if favorably ask him out. i wish you the best of luck!
2006-10-12 22:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say hey do you want too be with me or do you want too just be my friend then go from their remember that sometimes going out with friends can also kill a friendship if something goes wrong
2006-10-12 22:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by izzomann pothead4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me put it this way, guys don't do hints. Hell, even if you spell it out for us sometimes we don't get it right away. You have to make it DAMN obvious what your intentions are.
Good luck
2006-10-12 22:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask a friend who's close friends w/ him to ask him who he likes/if he likes u =D
2006-10-12 22:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by twinklee_x3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn the art of flirting , once you do you won't have to ask this "Q" again .........you'll know !
2006-10-12 22:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt first and see if the person flirts back with you.. if so.. full speed ahead!!
2006-10-12 22:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋