Last yr i met a guy i was single at the time (engaged now) and we been talking hanging out and everything a couple of days later his girlfriend called,saying to stay away from her man if i know whats good for me.So i did but he won't stop calling me,I called the phone company asking them to block his number but they can't I'll have to change my cell phone number which is impossible i have this phone for business.So my question really is have you been the other woman and didn't know and what did you do to get rid of the guy?
2006-10-12 15:25:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would just tell him that if he doesn't stop calling you that you will turn him into the police for harassment.
2006-10-12 15:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been the other woman once.
I started talking to this "lonely" soldier online and he visited me a couple times. He told me he was going to have surgery in his mouth. So i thought he'd be surprized if I called him the next day to see how he was. His WIFE answered! asked me who I was and if he "dated" me. Well, confronting him and talking to the wife did the trick, I never heard from him again.
I guess If I were you I would confront him directly, tell him you don't ever go out with someone else's man and tell the girlfriend that too. Then if he still bugs you get a restraining order.
2006-10-12 15:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by talk4now2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say that I have because I'm a guy. However, I once dated the Other Women. The Guy she was cheating on me with was married and had two other Girl Friends Besides My Girlfriend. When I found out I was pissed that he would do that to the woman I loved. Can you believe that guy?. What a Loser.
2006-10-12 15:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by mrharderson 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the guy to leave you alone,because I always believe that as a woman I need my man, so It is not good to be going out with another woman's man, cos it would hurt if its vice versa. I think you did a good thing by ignoring him. All the best with your engagement
2006-10-12 15:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by Granny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your engaged and you're not interested in him anymore. Unfortunately, many women are "the other woman" without knowing it..... because the guy lies to them; you know "we sleep in separate beds; we're really separated but we just live together for convenience; (I could write a book); not to mention - not wearing a wedding ring and then he asks you out - and you go out and now...... you're the "other woman". Can happen really innocently.
For this situation - when he says he wants to see you - maybe you should say that "my finacee and I" will meet you if you want to talk. Just say it - he'll never bite.... but it will send a strong message.
2006-10-12 15:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by longhats 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop calling otherwise you will sue for harrassment and file a police report. That is, only if you are very serious about him not calling you anymore.
I have been in that situation and always wound up hurt. It's not worth it. HE IS NOT WORTH IT!!!!!
I'm sure you have much better things to do than be apart of unnecessary drama.
2006-10-12 15:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by msjuliet2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what I want to know is do you even like him anyway? Meaning do you have feelings for him to, because it seems like he does to or he just wants to really be very close friends.
I guess you want to get rid of him though because you dont want any trouble with his girlfriend. Idea? Acctually tell him that you guys cant talk , and WHY! Dont be afaid to tell him that his girlfriend is threatining you and you dont want to get into anything right now. Also if he does know about his girlfriend doing this to you, then you should say to him that he should talk to his girlfriend if he wants to really be your friend still. =]
2006-10-12 15:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by till_deathdowepart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. And the guy responded kinda like your guy. At one point both of these crazy ppl were calling me!!! I didn't get rid of them till I moved and changed my cell number.
2006-10-12 15:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by RedDreads 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop answering his calls!! your engaged now, there shouldn't be any reason for him to be calling you anymore.. he is attached and there shouldn't be any reason for the two of you to hang out or you answer his calls anymore.. he will get tired of calling all the time and will eventually stop calling.. let the phone ring a hundred times.. don't answer!! change his ring tone to something else and you know when not to pick it or run to your phone to fnd out who it is..
2006-10-12 15:29:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Advise him to stop calling you. Tell him you will call his girlfriend or file a restraining order.
2006-10-12 15:30:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋