Why is it that all the pretty girls want to do is go to clubs, dance, act like they're bi, and then have emotionless sex? Should I drop my physical standard, and resign myself to a woman I'm not physically attracted to?
2006-10-12 14:33:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all hot girls are like that. I'm hot and I hate clubs
2006-10-12 14:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by I Care 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical beauty fades. Everyone develops wrinkles, gains weight, etc. Inner beauty remains.
You don't need to lower your standards, but you might look in other places. Avoid the clubs and try somewhere else. Go to church, join a team sport, work out at the gym, take up ballroom dancing, etc. There are MANY ways to meet women. It will happen but you must be patient. Rush and you will end up divorced.
Good luck!
2006-10-12 14:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with c g,he has a great point.
On the other hand,remember it's not as black and white as "some girls have personality,some girls have looks,some have both".
Alot of "ugly" girls can potentially look very beautiful,and everyone has a personality even if they don't show it. I'm not saying to look for a girl you think you can change to your liking,but just try and look deeper and you might find someone you really like. Don't be shallow,about looks OR personality.
Good luck. :-)
2006-10-12 14:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st...the majority of time when you really get to know and spend time as friends..that person becomes very special and becomes more handsome or pretty than you originally thought..think about a person that has no sight,,,,they fall in love with the real person ..not a fading look...if you have a physical standard..you are missing the entire boat..called love...love last ..looks do not
2006-10-12 14:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by clcschiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you could try that. The pretty one's act like that, because they can and because they never had to worry about getting what they want. The uglier one's act nicer because they have to work for what they get more often which makes them much less spoiled.
I hope no one is offended. This is just speaking in general, there are always exceptions.
2006-10-12 14:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by just_another_guy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh yeah hello where the hell have you been??? I mean if you take the time to get to know her even though you're not attracted to her then maybe later on in time you will start becoming attracted to her just try and see what happens.
2006-10-12 15:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...you need to look for pretty women that have good personalities. Hint: Not too many of them are clubbing or bar hopping.
2006-10-12 14:40:16 · answer #7 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you are looking for. You should try and find someone who meets both criteria - maybe not a 10 but not a couch spud either.
2006-10-12 14:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by Hebrews 11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all attractive girls are shallow. try searching. unless, you are really resigned to the idea with ending up with the person you're not attracted to at all, then it's your call.
2006-10-12 14:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all pretty girls only go to clubs im good looking and i do plenty of things and to top it of i have a personallity well evil mind but hey i think im fun to be around lol emm wonder what im doing on here at this time of night now im questioning my self am i borning and pretty lol
2006-10-12 14:43:30 · answer #10 · answered by lady_luck 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋