muscular boys?

Question

Where do all muscular boys go for a good time or hang out?.. And where is the good place to approche a guy without giving him a wrong idea?

Answer 1

Guys can be found so many places, it doesn't matter what their build is. Just because they have muscles doesn't mean they only go to the gym, and never to the book store.

What you need to do is continue with your normal activities. If you aren't involved in anything, take up something that interests you. Don't try to join a club to meet guys if it's not a place you would want to go to otherwise. The only guys you will end up meeting that way are the ones that are wrong for you.

Live your life for you. Do things you like, and go places of your choice. When you see an attractive guy at a place you are at, just walk up to him, smile, and say hi. Start a light conversation about the topic that pertains to where you two are, like books in a book store, bands in a music store, exercises at a gym, etc... Ask him about his favorites, dislikes, any reccomendations that he might have for you, etc... Keep it simple, and don't come on too strong. You should stick to whatever the subject is that brought you both to the same place.

Once you've gotten a good conversation going, and he seems open, ask if he would like to go for coffee/soda or some other non-alcoholic drink with you to continue talking. Never invite him to a bar, it gives the impression that you are easy and just looking for a good time. While it will get you the guy faster, it won't get you anything lasting. If he says yes, then you are set. If he says he can't right now, but would love to another time, offer to exchange numbers. If he seems vauge in his answer, then move on, he's not worth the trouble.

If you've gotten this far with him, you are doing great! As you sit talking at your table over drinks, slowly open more subjects, but still keep things light. Sex, politics, religion, and other controversial subjects are off limits for now. Steer the conversation towards his other interests and hobbies. Talk about what you both like to do in your spare time. Books, movies, music, career, goals, cats vs. dogs, current events, etc... They can all be fun topics to talk about without seeming like you are desperate or coming on too strong.

After you've gotten past the first casual meeting, exchange numbers and then plan for the first date. If you two have enough in common to even get this far, you will be fine from here on. You have a basis for both conversation and how to spend time together.

Remember to be yourself, never put on an act. It comes across as both fake and shallow. Smile, look him in the eye when talking, and don't be afraid to laugh if you find something funny. Lightly touch his arm when he says something witty, and complement him if there is something worth mentioning.

Good Luck!

Answer 2

for the second question: school, work, anywhere that is in public, Sorry this is short, g2g!

Answer 3

what's "the wrong idea"? just be straightforward

Answer 4

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