We have been togehter for almost three years. we were planing to get married on day. we fight and break up all the time but this time i think its permint. i do not have positve ways to deal with my emotions. and im a diabetic so i can't eat junk food. so can anyone tell me how to deal with this please?
2006-10-12 14:23:14 · 12 answers · asked by bubbles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the first thing u said that u broke up with ur first love and ur diabetic what are u trying to deal? ok if it is both then first breaking up there is always a way to mend with relationships unless u r really serious about this. I remember up to this day after graduating from highschool my love for my teacher has not been deceased. I try to move on and I did but at first I couldn't earlier on after a month I realized that I am more settled at what I want to do and is more serene towards my emotions for him because a month ago I cry because I was thinking about him, I couldn't go to sleep without crying, I was desperate to wanting to call him and I did so the second time he told me to stick with what I'm mastering and never to surrender. It hit me and many times since then I just wish he could be there for me to talk to and after that big cry in my bed and reading the good old times of my diaries about him filled with memories I just lauged and closed the book after reading. I try to focus on what I have to do and also I try to look towards the future and just knowing that he is there and cares. You need to look on the bright side especially with your first love just move on and forget about him and think about other guys out there whom are much caring and may become your future for life. Having diabetes doesn't mean u can't eat junk food at all just eat healthily like salads and things that are low in calories, fats and sugar free. It doesn't seem so bad just stick to more fruits and vegetables and more water. good luck and hope u will find the love of ur life event the first didn't turn out right. It is not the end of the world.
2006-10-12 14:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by Shirley l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well definately stay out of the food. You need to surround yourself with friends and activities for a good couple of months. Don't give yourself any time to sit and feel sorry for yourself. Three years is a long time...what did you fight about? Are there issues a mediator can help you work out? If not just stay busy and don't jump into another relationship right away. Give yourself some time to think about what you want in a relationship first.
2006-10-12 14:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by slckid2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else to love (kidding). Know that if you truly loved him, you will forever, but love should never be an emotional roller coaster like the relationship you describe. What you describe isn't a healthy relationship (i.e. we fight and break up all the time). I don't say fighting (and in this context I mean arguments) isn't a part of a normal relationship, however, the fact that he plays with your emotions with respect to breaking up and getting back together is a bit immature and perhaps you both are. Take some time to grow and get to know yourself for who you truly are and in the process learn to love yourself. Someone mature enough to appreciate you for your mature self will eventually find you.
2006-10-12 14:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by d_i_m_p04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think if it can't get any worse than it can only get better. There is no way to handle this. Life is full of problems the sooner you realize it the better off you'll be. And learn from your mistakes.
2006-10-12 14:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to here that, just take things one day at a time. And who knows maybe your get back together, but don't worry about that day, focus on today.
2006-10-12 14:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by Little_Lilth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what you have to do is going to be hard but you have to talk to him and ask him if that is what he wants than you should respect his decision and go on with your life hey its hard at the beginnig and your never going to forget about him but you will always have a place for him in your heart no matter what it takes time you can forgive but never forget
2006-10-12 14:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by crazy 4 somethin' real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the movies. Go to the beach. Burn his possesion to remember him by. Send a nasy e-mail to him.
2006-10-12 14:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run it will make you fell better to excercise my mom is a nurse so I think it is good advice.
2006-10-12 14:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by Kathryn M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could stop thinking about him and go on with your life!
2006-10-12 14:25:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of the bad things, that's how I got over my ex
2006-10-12 14:25:11 · answer #10 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋