I love buying beautiful undergarments, but I hate having to shop among strange leering men just standing there watching all the women look at undergarments. Why do women need to bring their nasty husbands and boyfriends with them. Is it just me or are other women annoyed by this. I wish I could take two linebakers with me to stare down these perves while I shop.
2006-10-12 14:21:56 · 17 answers · asked by ValleyViolet 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Nicole, I am not concieted, but baby, I do turn heads. I have no problem with couples shopping together. However when the woman is in the other section shopping and her man is turned around watching me, I feel very imposed on. I look at these things to make my man happy. For men like I describe, I wish you would keep them on a leash or leave them home. BTW, I am not a hootchie. I dress very conservatively.
2006-10-12 14:38:18 · update #1
Baltimore, darling, there is no excuse for you...read carefully...I said staring at all the women...my, arent we aggressive this evening. Again, I am not talking about couples or families shopping. I am talking about men that stare at women (not only me, cupcake) inappropriately.
2006-10-12 14:52:20 · update #2
Mythodous...aren't you the guy who posted the statement Janet Jackson's wardrbe malfunction made you want chocolate milk....but of course, you are not racist and you never think inappropraite thoughts about women...not you (yeah, right).. You probably lie on the floor at the entrance trying to look up their dresses.
2006-10-12 16:00:51 · update #3
sorry people are being rude, it must be that time of the month.... :O jk. anyway. women bring their husbands and botfriends because they want their opinions on what is good or what they like. i do think that if they have a boyfriend that is known to undress women with their eyes in public, than they should leave them at home and take a girl friend with them instead....
2006-10-12 15:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like others have said, I think a lot of women bring their male SOs along so they can comment on the stuff, which in a way is nice, because it gives the guy a chance to have a say in what he is going to see his lady in--just before it comes off and they get into it.
But if the guys they bring in are leering at all the other women in there, then that is another thing. Honestly, at a first read, I kind of thought that you were just exaggerating the circumstances. Some women like to do that. I guess it just gives them something to complain about, just like men have some odd quirk to counter that. But I am not there with you in the undergarment section, so I can't really say for sure. Really though, if the women know their guys are doing that, they shouldn't bring them along. Heck, they probably shouldn't even be with them. But...some people just can't live unless they have a (in)significant other to tote around, so I guess you could just think of that and hopefully it will make things better.
2006-10-12 15:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by I'm Still Here 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I take my bf with me because I'm not forking out money on lingerie that he doesn't like. If it gives him an erection when I try it on, I'll buy it, otherwise it goes back on the rack. (And he only leaves the dressing room when his erection has gone down, so don't worry he's not wandering around the knickers with a stiffie!)
I would bring your own husband/boyfriend with you in the underwear department, because it is someone to protect you from leering men. If any guy stares at me, my bf can give them a pretty intimidating "don't mess with my girl" look back at them.
2006-10-12 15:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 03:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if they are staring at you instead of shopping with their partner, i think there is a problem. Personally, my husband enjoys shopping with me for lingerie and i enjoy it also. However, he doesn't stand around gawking at the other women in the store, and i would find this disturbing myself. I think if this happened to me, i would say something to the man, like may I ask you why are you staring, it is very rude. Good luck and God bless
2006-10-12 15:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How frequently has it happened that men were leering at you while buying underwear? You should take photos of them when you catch them doing that. If it's even happening... But to answer your question, men shop with women because they are already spending time together. Lingerie sections are not neccessarily girls only spaces. Anyway, I doubt they're all that fascinated by your underwear purchases. But if you really are all that arousing, maybe you should shop online instead.
2006-10-12 14:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by beautypsychic 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First, they are not perves if they are with their wives or girlfriends. And it may be that the women they are with want to get their boyfriend or husband's opinion of the undergarments they wear or will wear.
These men are not interested in you nor what you are looking at - they are looking at the options for the woman they are with. Not all men are given the opportunity to choose the garments they are going to enjoy flinging across the bedroom as they unwrap their girlfriends for a night in.
2006-10-12 14:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by north79004487 5 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Well, someone seems full of one’s self…
I bring my boyfriend shopping for everything with me. “Undergarments” being no exception.
Just because you don’t have a male companion to bring in with you, you need not be rude (not to mention conceded) to the ladies who do have a “carrier” with them. Believe it or not males are allowed in a lingerie shop. They are usually there to comment when the following questions are asked:
“Does this make me look fat?”
“Do I need another size? What do you think?”
“ Fuzz or Frills?”
“Lace or Silk?”
So- when the female in the relationship needs a tip her boyfriend who is usually the one gets to see her undergarments can give his two cents.
2006-10-12 14:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by Catarina 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Real men buy the underwear they want their women to wear.
2006-10-12 14:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yup, fishwine is correct.
My gf loves to bring me along shopping so that I can be her handbag carrier, clothestand, luggage puller etc etc. You get the point? basically, we are just there for carrying things, not to oogle at you.
2006-10-12 14:31:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋