well as you all know i got married to natalie and we went home and had sex like in the poem....
but anyways we have a lot to deal with now and we dont want baby seth so what do we do....????
2006-10-12 14:21:19 · 52 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
give him up for adoption
2006-10-12 14:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you'll have to put him back.* Just tell baby Seth "Swim home! We've changed our minds!". Umm... yeah...
*I'm answering this as if you're joking. It must be part of a poem you read, and you are thinking we've all read it too? Anyway, if you're not joking or pretending to be a character- seek some advise from a parent, older friend, etc in real life - ASAP. If you are just joking around - dude! don't do that! People take stuff like this VERY seriously, as you'll see (I hope).
2006-10-12 14:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by ACC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just read your profile and 2 weeks ago seth was born and you were the happiest proudest dad on earth talking about how much you love him and wanted more kids WHAT HAPPEN? the stresses of parenthood? or are one of those guys who just needs attention and figured you would get some w/ a question like this, guess what it worked, if your serious there has to be some one in your family or hers who would rather care for seth than see him sent away to be raised by someone none of you know reguardless you own up and make sure that baby gets the best quality of life possible its not his fault his parents are selfish and immature!!!!!
2006-10-12 16:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by Crissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be joking! You made the choice of having sex and getting pregnant is something that can happen because of that choice. If you're that irresponsible and you're sitting here telling people you don't want you're baby anymore, you probably should never had had sex in the first place. You know what you need to do? You need to grow up and take some responsibility for your actions.
2006-10-12 14:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my world, you did the deed now you gotta step up to your responsibilities. i'm not married, had an oops but never even crossed my mind to not keep him.....those are the cards you were dealt now make the most....if you truly can't care for a child for whatever reason, put the baby up for adoption. everybody has lots of things to deal with but that's still no excuse....if you don't want kids then 1 - use protection or 2 - DON'T HAVE SEX
2006-10-12 14:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by Jeni O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him up now, permanently (I'm talking about adoption), while he's young and won't remember the trauma. I am guardian to a child who had parents like you, only they didn't admit it til too late, and now the child has post-traumatic stress syndrome, fear of abandonment, and the parents force themselves to visit rather than admit they never want to be parents and walk away. makes it harder for the kid when he's old enough to know the deal. he's not wanted but refused a "real" set of parents because his birth parents are selfish *ssholes. don't be those people.
2006-10-12 14:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by huh? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will take him i wanted 10 and i was only blessed with two even temporarily. If there is a chance that you will want him make sure that you place him with someone who can willing give him back.Childrens Aid or Protection will help they are not out for blood like some have a manor of believing.Good Luck and realize that you are atleast admitting you are failing and some neglectful parents necer do that.
2006-10-12 14:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by Bobbi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adopt him out. That way he will have parents who love him. You may regret not wnting him later though so you really need to talk to a councelor first. Then seek out the county adoption agency or someone like that. I was adopted and it really hurts to know your parents don't want you. I am 52 and I found my family 15 years ago. My mom said she would do the same thing again. Ouch! That was hurtful.
2006-10-12 14:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by Just Bein' Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
throw him in the trash, of course. not
i hope you know that i am kidding. you cant get rid of a baby like that. sure there's adoption, but hey: you had sex, natalie got pregnant probably because of the lack of condoms, and she had a baby. it is your fault, and now you have the consequence- the responsibility of life. next time, use condoms, or just dont have sex next time.
please let seth grow up with his REAL parants- happily
2006-10-12 14:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by Gale 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think its really wrong, i mean u posted about how ur baby was just one day old and u saw him smile at u and u wer so excited. now u dont want him? i dont understand. is it because u dont love him? is it because its so hard having a child? no1 ever sed it would be easy......... think about this and if u seriously dont want seth anymore then put him up for adoption.....thats all i can say
2006-10-12 14:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by polygirrrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you not want your child?
You can take him to any hospital, fire station, or police station, and drop him off, no questions asked, no repercussions. So if you can't wait to get rid of him, or you think you won't/can't take care of him right, do that please. It is not Seth's fault that you don't want him, so don't make him suffer. If you don't want to drop him off somewhere, put him up for adoption immediately!
And maybe you should think about making better choices.
2006-10-12 14:29:03 · answer #11 · answered by sexy_lil_butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋