My bf and I been together for about a year know, when we first meet he told me that he didn’t like me having other guy friends, but he said I am not telling u to stop talking to them I just don’t like it, so I stop talking to all of my guys friends, at that time he didn’t have any girl friends until this day he doesn’t have any girl friends that he talk to. So today he calls me and he said he went to his old home town and he seen this girl that he went to school with him and he also said that she was so cool. And he brought up that about one of my guy friend that use to leave with me and my family because his mother past away so my mom seen him as one of her son and I was telling him about him and he said what if I start talking to this girl on the phone which u get mad? What if she comes over my house and spends the night would u get mad? Asking me all this crazy q? And I said I trust u so u can talk to her, I don’t think he is going to do anything he is just trying to see what I will say, but why would he do this, if u were me what would u say???
2006-10-12 14:07:15 · 10 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I'm not down with her spending the night at his house...Why would she need to do that? That's stupid to me. I'm kind of insecure when it comes to my boyfriend having certain female friends...like the ones he used to sleep with or the ones that tell him that they can take him from me if they want to. Anyways, he got rid of those friends and I don't have a problem with him having the other female friends who don't come at him like that. He didn't actually tell you to stop talking to the guy friends so you made that decision. I didn't tell my guy to stop either, he just did on his own, but I still have my male friends. I just don't understand why he would ask what you would think about her spending the night...I mean you and him weren't together when this friend of yours was staying there were you?
2006-10-12 14:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold up! He thinks it's okay for him to have a female friend, talk on the phone with her, and have her SLEEPOVER but you cannot even talk to your male friends?
That's ridiculous and unfair.
And, even if he is friends with a female, there's no reason for any other woman to sleepover his house except for you. I think it's time to start worrying. Your trust is being abused because he is interested in this other girl and is also being unfair.
2006-10-12 21:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE DON'T WANT U 2 TALK 2 ANY OF UR GUY FRIENDS,BUT HE IS TALKING 2 ONE OF HIS GIRL FRIENDS! THAT IS SOOOO STUPID, I'LL JUST KEEP TALKING 2 MY GUY FRIENDS, AND IF HE TELLS ME HE DONT WANT ME TALKING 2 THEM I'LL JUST TELL HIM I'M ALOUD 2 TALK 2 WHO EVER I WANT AND HE CANT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT! AND WHY DO U HAVE 2 LET HIM TALK 2 HIS GIRL FRIENDS WHEN HE DONT WANT U 2 TALK 2 ANY OF UR GUY FRIENDS. IF HE TELLS ME WHO 2 TALK 2 AND WHO NOT 2 TALK 2 THEN I'LL JUST BREAK UP WITH HIM...BUT THATS JUST ME.... IF U WANT 2 LISTEN 2 HIM THEN GO AND LISTEN 2 HIM...IF HE GETS OUT OF HAND AND HE TELLS U WHAT 2 EAT,DRINK,AND WHEN 2 WAKE UP IN THE MORNINGS,AND WHEN 2 GO 2 SLEEP AT NIGHT, THEN I'LL JUST FOR GET HIM AND GET SOME ONE ELSE THATS NOT A LOSER, AND LETS ME TALK 2 WHO EVER I WANT 2 AND NOT WHO HE WANTS ME TOO.I DONT WANT TO SOUND LIK UR MOM OR ANY THING BUT I DONT LIK GUYS LIK THAT.THEY R ALL JURKES THEY TELL U WHAT 2 DO ALL THE TIME...U SHOULDNT LISTEN 2 WHAT HE WANTS U 2 DO LIK TALK 2 WHO EVER HE WANTS U 2 . WELL HOPE THIS IS GOOD ENOUGH.... I DONT REALLY ANSWER THESE ?'S FOR THE POINTS I ANSWER CAUSE PEOPLE NEED HELP OR ADVISE...LOL....ROTFL
2006-10-12 21:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by summer_princess_5083 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need to love and to be loved.
Most of our issues could be solved fairly easily, if we have our loved one supporting us.
If you are hurt by a former ex, well you just need to get yourself up and start searching for someone who deserves your love.
Don't ever be shy .. that won't ever help you .. and you'll have lots to lose. Do what your heart tells you it's right.
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2006-10-12 21:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would let him go but keep your eye out you might trust the b.f. but not the girl she can be snaeky you know.show your b.f. that you actually trust him with other girls unliek him with you and your guy friends so tell him ok just be careful and tell me what happens :D
mucho loves--
2006-10-12 21:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like he may be trying to break up! If you think that he is you could always beat him to it! If he cared for you he would not be mentioning another girl!
2006-10-12 21:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is trying to see if you would be interested in a threesome without having to directly ask!
2006-10-12 21:11:43 · answer #7 · answered by Mark Antony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first question would probably be what kind of friend and then how long was she stayin and then can i meet her. but yeah i would let him. its good you trust him you have to have trust to have your relationship work. good luck.
2006-10-12 21:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by imissyou_iluvyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your being to soft, tell him if you cant talk to guy friends he cant talk to girls either.... 2 way street
2006-10-12 21:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him you will do the same things HE will do, why not, if he can, so can you, only fair.........
2006-10-12 21:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by funguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋