I'm 22/m/white. I am a very open minded fella. I grew up as an army brat and lived around everyone. I have an urban look to me. I have diamonds in my ears, wear tims, have a fade. I like r&b and some rap. I am cool with everyone. I can kick it with anyone of any type. However, I have a question, are there that many black girls attracted to white guys?? I been wantin to date one for a while but never built up the courage. I talk to them in class and all, the ones who I'm cool with and I like but I never try to take it anywhere other than there. What do you think? I mean I really don't see the big deal but whenever I bring it up to some people they act all shocked and like there something wrong with it. For me, I like who I like. Race don't matter to me as far as what I like in a girl. I have been struggling with this for a while (like 8yrs). What do you think? Am I just trippin over nothing? I just wanna for once let myself be free. I really need some good honest advice everyone.
2006-10-12 14:05:57 · 6 answers · asked by Trojan8408 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, there are and there's nothing wrong with it or you. There are more black females into white males than people assume. If they're what you're attracted to, go for it; don't make other people's opinion hold you back.
2006-10-12 14:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a black woman. Race should not matter but for some reason it does and there is a stigma attached to white men/black women. I have my theories but I won't go there. If u are feeling black women make sure it is for geniune reasons and not just cuz ur curious or have some ideas about black women from listening to rumors or watching to much t.v. If it's all good then start asking some that u like out.
2006-10-12 14:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by Dee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It varies. Any possible combination you can imagine, there's SOMEONE who's into it. A smart man doesn't care about a woman's race -- he cares if she's attractive to HIS taste, is she smart, is she nice to him, does she keep her word. I'm white and skinny and I dated a black woman with BHT for years. The only reason we didn't get married was she didn't want to. I'm happily married now, to a white woman, but her race didn't enter into it -- we met online and neither of us had cams, and we wrote each other letters for a long time before we even met in person. Until the last week before we met, when we talked about it, I could only guess what race she was. If you like a boy, go over and talk to him and forget about what anyone else says. If he responds, good! If he doesn't, forget the fool and go talk to someone else! Sweetie, you play safely, have a good time, and don't let anyone stand in your way.
2016-05-21 21:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a black women I wished more white men would have tried to get with me,not because I dint like black men,but because I wanted a choice to see what man I wanted to date, so just because you are white does not mean black women are not interested.I have a white man and we have been dating for 6 years now,but its not because he is white it is because he is a good man and I have been with good black men,so dont be afraid to ask a women out just because of her color.If you like her black/white/whatever color,ask her out.
2006-10-12 14:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by schazell j 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with it, it is your life - not their life, live it as you desire as long as you are not hurting anyone. If you want to date Black Women, date them. There are many Black Women that like to date white men, I date them.
2006-10-12 16:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by RY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im black and im into to white dudes nothin wrong wit that
solve ya problems tho.
2006-10-12 14:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋