If your ex wanted you back after 4 years, what would she have to do to get you to take him/her back?
2006-10-12 13:53:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's nothing anyone can do to make someone want them, ex or no. Either they do or they don't. Spend some time together and be honest about you want.
Good luck.
2006-10-12 13:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow 4 years is a long time! I dont think anybody should take an ex back like that. Its like why didnt they want u before and all of a sudden they do? It just doesnt make sense. They lost the person and they need to deal with that loss.
2006-10-12 20:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by deanda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have always believed that when you have lost the magic that is there at the very beginning,
because of the games that people play with one anothers feelings and emotions, there is no going back to as it was.
because that day and time has passed, and the water has passed under the bridge.
But you can some time rekindle your relationship in friendship but not as it was.
Never go back wards what has passed... has passed.. and is no more or ever again to be, it has gone.
candyman
2006-10-12 21:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by candyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 4 years? that's a long time when the ex comes calling
there's a hidden motive behind it and it's usaully money.
2006-10-12 21:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by markm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you broke up. If it was just something like bad timing and you had a mutual understanding about it then not much but if the breakup was over something that caused either one of you some pain than leave it like it is........ex!
2006-10-12 20:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
have won the mega lotto for 300 million dollars and have no Prenuptial Agreement to sign..then I would in a heart beat.and tough out the whole 367 days then put in for a divorce and a split of half and half of everything..
other than that..nothing at all..it would never ever happen..
what to get some kind of life long diseases from them..no way.
2006-10-12 20:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I still cared for that ex she shouldn't have to do anything just showing me that she still care is good enough. It's not a game they can't "WIN" you back. It's ether you want them or not
2006-10-12 20:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by Deadman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wants you back, and you still care for him, he shouldn't have to do anything. But if you've moved on, don't look back. It's wrong to try and make some one win you over.
2006-10-12 21:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I'd ever take back my ex no matter what they did for me. It would be a turn off if they'd do something big for me to get back with them. =(
2006-10-12 20:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go back in time 5 years...only to breakup again.
EEEWWW YUCK - I hate him
I am married to an awesome man now. Ex can kiss my A#S!
2006-10-12 20:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by Baby #1 born August 2009 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋