i am 14 years old and i have only had like 2 girlfreinds in my life so i not soo good with girls now there is this girl i like and she sits next to me in english we mostly talk about our work except sometimes, however i do not know what to say to her most of the time. Sometimes we conect most times we do not also how do i know really if she likes me i mean sometimes she randomly looks at me hoping i will say something or do something i think which i do not. Now is there i way i can like i know if she likes me and plz do not give me stupid advice like ask her or go for it. Another thing how do i conect with her i mean it is preety stupid to just sit there with a not talking i mean i do not know how to really start a conversationg that does not look corny most people say like ask her if she likes u, or say she is beautifull i mean that all is preety corny and it does not work. So plz help me conect with this girl which i know i can and i just can't conect with her help me
2006-10-12 13:53:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her what her favorite song is, her favorite band, what is her favorite class...[these are all safe questions, tell her your favorites, and that will start you both talking....other subjects you can bring up later are:
what online games she likes, tell her yours
any brothers, sisters in family
find her at lunch and ask her if you can sit with her, eat lunch and talk about what sports does she like, school activities/sports.......if she mentions a school game, try to go to it
be yourself and listen to what she tells you..
2006-10-12 14:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by churchonthewayseniors 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK,in the bottom part of your question you say that you know you can connect with her,but then you say you just cant?I understand that you think that when people tell you just to ask her out or if she likes you,you think it is stupid or dumb,well those people are right just tell her that you are sick and tired of playing games and you really like her and would she want to go out with you and get to know you better out side of school?I mean why play around,by the time you do it slowly she could find a boyfriend,then where would you be?so just tell her what you feel and see if you guys can just hang out.
2006-10-12 21:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by schazell j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how bout just askin her how she is doing or tell her u like her shirt u think it looks good on her u no what i mean or write her a note some times if u write it its alot easyer to say belive me i no im not to good when it comes down to telling a dude he's cute or i like him so i write it down and u dont even have to give it to her leave it in her locker or in her books but make sure u let her no who its from so she can no who likes her and im not gonna lie it doesnt always work but belive me when i say its worth a try cause u never no she just may like u maybe thats why she looks at u every mornin waiting for u to say somthing to her i mean she could feel the same way u do about the whole thing she may be scared just like u i dont no what to tell u as far as i no i dont even no if my answer is good enough for u but i hope it helps good luck
2006-10-12 22:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by rudy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for her phone number be aggressive tell her if u had a biscuit u would sop her up like gravy make her laugh.Are u dating do u have teen dances be creative ask her to save u dance
2006-10-12 21:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by Nai Nai 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Say, "Excuse me for staring, but it's so hard."
2006-10-12 21:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by Allen Montgomery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋