Ok...there's this really cute guy at my school that I have a crush on and two days after I told my best friend about my crush she started dating him. So to sum it up they broke up and now i'm wondering if it would be wrong for me to still try to pursue him...What do you think?
-Thanks for reading this i kno its kinda long :)
2006-10-12 13:51:54 · 9 answers · asked by Mya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yeah...her excuse was that she's been liking for like two years now. Plus she mentioned that she thinks that he likes me since he'd always talk about me,me and the guy already talk but as just friends :)
He does kind of act like he likes me.
Another problem is that I lied and told her that I didn't have a problem with it since it was only a "CRUSH" ...that was a mistake.
2006-10-12 14:06:45 · update #1
Go for it! Turn about is fair play.
2006-10-12 13:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should totally pursue this guy because u knew him first. you're the one that had a crush on him in the first place. that was really mean of your friend to do that to u. You should get to know this guy that u have a crush on and talk to him. See if thinks ur cute, that could also help.
2006-10-12 13:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
letss see here:
1) Talk to your best friend first about if shes truly over him yet and kindof ask around to see whos he into.
2) When the coast is all clear relating to #1, then i'd say tell your friend and totally go for your own gold.
Good Luck kiddoo 8]
2006-10-12 13:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by thegirldownstairs[♥] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to pursue him...Let him pursue you. You can drop hints that you are interested. BEFORE you need to think about why him and your best friend didn't work out. Also be sure to let her know that you are still crushing on him so she won't be taken by surprise.
2006-10-12 13:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by bamachick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your friend did wrong in going out with him after she knew you liked him so she did wrong in that but n-e ways i think you should still go for it.who knows maybe you and him can actually pull it off and end up being REALLY happy!try it out
2006-10-12 13:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not wrong, she was the one that did you dirty in the first place.a true friend would never take the man you like,but if i were you i would just move on and find someone else, i wouldn't be comfortable being with someone my friend was with.
2006-10-12 13:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by morenita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what else are u going to do? Stand there and watch your evil friend talking to him? I don't think so!
2006-10-12 13:57:57 · answer #7 · answered by Rattgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are the other guys??? Is he the only one? You and your bestfriend are wrong.
2006-10-12 13:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by brooklynchyck808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it!
2006-10-12 13:55:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋