we have liked eachother fro liek three years and we were basically going otu btu it was never "official". then he started going back otu with his ex gf who is also one of my ex friends now... he turned a bunch of my friends against me and it realy bugs me..... i have a ton of friends btu i was pretty close with these ones and alot of things were said by peoepl that werent even involved in the situation... at homecoming i was dancing wiht this guy and my ex got all mad adn told him to leave me alone.... yet hes going otu wiht his new gf.... help plz.. totally confused...
2006-10-12 13:45:52 · 16 answers · asked by Caitlin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to do what's right for you. Forget what your ex wants, b/c he's selfish. Why should you care about someone that doesn't care about you. You do whatever makes you happy, b/c he is.
2006-10-12 13:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get rid of things that constantly remind you of him for starters. You can pack them up in a box and put them away for awhile until your ready to deal with the end of that relationship. Keep busy and go out with your friends. Go to the movies and enjoy life. Find someone that enjoys the same things as you. Don't listen to music that reminds you of the old girlfriend, it will only bring pain. Do new things and have some fun. Keeping busy takes your mind off your troubles.
2006-10-12 13:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting answers.... I would say that you should just talk to him. I mean, he has no right to tell others to back off from you if you aren't going out. Tell him to back off. He has a girl, tell him to take care of her. If he wants to have control over who you're with, then he should break up with the girl he's with and officially go out with you. Guys are like that. Just talk to him. Let him know what's on your mind. Good luck!
2006-10-12 13:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Picture him as a laughing jackass every time you feel nostalgia or do a little victory dance now that you are rid of him.
He sounds like a thorough d i c k you are better off without him.
2006-10-12 13:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date 3 new guys
2006-10-12 13:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by BillyBoy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a jerk. You don't need that. Your too good for him. Just forget about him & move on. Start looking in another direction. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
2006-10-12 13:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by yellow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need to love and to be loved.
Most of our issues could be solved fairly easily, if we have our loved one supporting us.
If you are hurt by a former ex, well you just need to get yourself up and start searching for someone who deserves your love.
Don't ever be shy .. that won't ever help you .. and you'll have lots to lose. Do what your heart tells you it's right.
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2006-10-12 13:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He need to grow up he still likes you and he thinks it's ok that he's doing is? no that's not right.. he does own you! tell him... but if you still have feelings for him find away to talk to him and maybe you could get back togther..
2006-10-12 13:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by maria U 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
write in a journal
write down the good times, bad times,a dn how u feel
then have a couple of gurl nights out and party
2006-10-12 13:48:29 · answer #9 · answered by lovely brunette 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say you should talk to your friends or your ex bf and ask them to reconsider,and tell your ex bf to get a life
2006-10-12 13:53:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋