I am in a situation where who now is my exigirlfriend clearly left me to go after greener pastures (term we know for what is used), tried to meet other peple, DID, left me suffering with the intentions of not comming back unless someday she changes her mind but she will let me know, and now it seems that she wants to come back, honestly it feels horrible, I don't want to ask what she has been doing, I did love her, I do love her, but I don't want someone to be playing with me, even less, if this kind of cases usually never have a happy ending, have you ever been or know someone that has been on a similar situation like me?, could you please help me if this is the way of discovering true love or is just to help spend the time of someone for a while?
2006-10-12 13:43:56 · 7 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex did this too. don't fall for it. they only came bak b/c they nu that they could have u again until they found that "greener pasture" that they were looking for. she will leave u again. my friend has actually done this to one of her guy friends. they have gone out like 3 or 4 times b/c she always came running bak, he feels like she rele loves him again, she meets a nu guy, leaves her bf for thie nu guy, nu guy is a jerk, she comes running bak.... seriously, its not worth it. move on and find someone who thinks of u as the "greener pasture" if u no wat i mean
2006-10-12 13:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, if they were willing to stray once, they'll stray again. Only a masochist will keep giving and loving when the other person isn't giving and loving back. Hanging onto those feelings while she was out catting around was non-productive and it'd be worse if you gave her another chance. I've known people in a similar situation and have NEVER seen a happy ending where the unfaithful person suddenly shapes up and they live happily ever after.
2006-10-12 21:02:48 · answer #2 · answered by The Divorce Guru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have lived through that. It's not fun for you or either of the partners you are/were involved with. It sounds to me like your the safe bet for her to run back to when the others don't work out. You don't want to be anyone's sloppy seconds! You deserve better. Let her find her greener pastures and when she matures in a few years and is still interested in you, then maybe give her another chance if you cannot get on with your life in the meantime. Your worth more to yourself!
2006-10-12 20:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what you are? You are the back up plan. How would your girl feel if you told her that you were going to **** around and then come back if you don't find anything??? All I can say is be careful, I know you love her and probably want to work things out, but the work is not with you, she needs to work for you. You just sit there and tell her, work for it b/c you need convincing that her feelings are true.
2006-10-12 20:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you are fool enough to let her come back this time? Will you let her come back again next time -and the times after that? Dump her and find someone worthwhile who thinks about you once in a while instead of putting themselves first and foremost.
2006-10-12 20:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by nidan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never look back my friend .
2006-10-12 20:46:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to keep looking.she will leave you again
2006-10-12 20:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by mutt531 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋