i just started going out w/ this really great guy. but he has a rep of akingout ALOT and like right away. ive never even kissed a guy how am i suppose to make out!! i dont want him to think im really inexperienced and imature. please help me!
2006-10-12 13:15:57 · 15 answers · asked by ams 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.
Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional.
In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other persons mouth open using your tongue.
Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other persons mouth and playfully touch their tounge.
Read the other persons body language, if they seem tense or start to pull away, stop what you are doing.
If they open their mouth more or otherwise indicate they like the kiss, keep on doing what you have been only with a little more passion.
As the kissing gets going saliva build up can be a problem, don't forget to swallow.
Make sure you keep your tongues relaxed but your lips tight (saliva again), you don't want the kiss to turn messy.
TIPS
Don't forget to breathe.
Since French Kissing is "wetter" than other kinds of kissing it is a good idea to start with dry lips, don't lick them first.
If one of you have braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be more careful and not as forceful when things get passionate.
If both of you wear braces you can still French Kiss, you just have to be very gentle and avoid touching teeth.
French Kissing takes practice, but at least it is fun to practice this one!
2006-10-12 13:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by caligurrl3634 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making out for the first time can be really scary and it is best if it is someone you really care about and feel comfortable with. I wouldn't blame you if you feel kind of intimidated with this guy, knowing that he has so much experience. I would hold out for a guy who is willing to have a relationship with you and be patient with you. It will make it a lot more comfortable and less stressful for you.
But if you do make out, be prepared for a lot of new feelings. It is a very intimate thing and you will probably feel very bonded to the person afterwards. And if he leaves you right away that would be VERY painful and would probably take a long time to get over and will make it hard for you to become involved with someone else for awhile. So be careful and take it slow. There is no need to be in a rush.
And when you do make out, there is nothing you need to know. Just follow your feelings. Do what makes you feel good and what the other person seems to like. You will know because they will moan and stuff.
2006-10-12 13:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to crave it! Make your mouth water, have your lips slightly moist, when you kiss just lean in and gently brush your lips against his. Lean back and gaze into his eyes (actually he should probably do this) but... if he doens't then i guess his inexperienced! Then after that kiss him again gently sucking on his top or bottom lip. Once things get more aggressive you can slip a toungue in and pull out, he will follow, it will be like a game to him.
2006-10-12 13:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get real....i am sorry but if your going to get on the computer and ask ppl. how to kiss a guy ..... than you need to go have a talk with your mommy and daddy because if you dont know how to kiss then your to young to be making out
2006-10-12 13:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by dogfaceboy626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, for me it just came natural. When it just happens, you just get caught up and kinda follow his lead and the next thing you know, you're makin out! It's wonderful. Hmm, I hope you're not too young lol
2006-10-12 13:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by jobs1012003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your really into this guy then when it comes to the time to make out everything will come natural. Trust me. just don't stop moving your tounge. good luck!!!
2006-10-12 13:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just fake it until you make it.. pretend you know what your doing.. kiss him back.. but if you are unexperienced then just sit back and let him do the kissing..
2006-10-12 13:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by maria U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide what you are ready for, and then go for it. If he crosses the line, saying "No, wait" should be enough. Follow your instincts.
2006-10-12 13:20:10 · answer #8 · answered by ArTeKS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey just tall him that you really have not kissed a guy ok just come tall him
2006-10-12 13:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by lewis 1136 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's hard to give derections how but, just go for it and if he asks you if you never did this before just admit it
2006-10-12 13:19:31 · answer #10 · answered by CAMELS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋