my boyfriend. who lives 2 states away we have been together for 10 months. But it hasnt been the best. He never calls me anymore and when he dose it at 1 in the morning and he gets mad at me for being asleep and not wanting to talk. And to top it off its on a school night when he dose this. And he told my friend that he would breakup with me to go out with her. And theres this really nice cute guy at school and he likes me and he asked me out but i cant go behind my boyfreind back so i dont know wether i should breakup with him or what. Please help me
2006-10-12 13:00:00 · 11 answers · asked by in love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you shoudl go out with the nice guy. Your boyfriend has been an incrediable jerk to you for a long time. calling you at one and getting mad because you're asleep? really. i would hate for my boyfriend to do that.
this nice guy is nice to you. you like him and he likes you. your first date might be the beginning of a great relationship. you never know. you might be giving up the chance of a life time by not going out with the nice guy and keeping your old boyfriend.
good luck!
2006-10-12 13:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by chaos causer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know in your heart and your head what you need to do. I agree with you. Break up with the boyfriend. It sounds as if he's being a real cad, and that certainly isn't how you treat someone you're supposed to care about. If you do, though, make sure it's because you're unhappy in the relationship and want to move on, and not just because there's another nice guy waiting in the wings.
2006-10-12 13:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion ur current boyfriend doesnt treat u right. i mean he really shouldnt call u at 1 in the morning unless it was an emergency. so i think u should break up with him and go to the other guy who will treat u right and and will call u at the right time unlike the other guy and wont tell ur friend that he will break up with u just so he can go out with her. go for the cute nice guy at ur school, and get rid of the careless guy. good luck and i hope i could help! ; )
2006-10-12 13:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest thing that I look for in a woman is emotional availability. I have unfortunately just come to this realization, and have been hurt several times by women who were abusive, alcoholic, or just keeping me around until something better came along.
My acdvice is to decide what is important to you: a guy who is available emotionally and/or physically or someone who does not treat you as you deserve to be treated.
2006-10-12 13:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by geohauss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off with the long distance guy and start seeing the local guy. Sounds like long distance guy is going to dump you anyway.
2006-10-12 13:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems like your other relationship isnt working very well and if he'd break up with you for your friend the hell with him you can break up with him for someone else to. if all else fails you could always talk to your bf about whats going on and if hes a jerkoff about it then its over. GOOD LUCK
2006-10-12 13:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by kiss_me22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious. The first relationship isn't working. The new one has a chance. Do the math.
2006-10-12 13:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the long distance one. It isn't working. Try one closer to home. Good luck!
2006-10-12 13:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by tas-okay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the nice guy.
2006-10-12 13:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with your boyfriend and get with the guy at school cuz i think your boyfriend has already moved on, you should too.
2006-10-12 13:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by Coke-n-Snickers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋