i just wondered cuz im well a virgin, sad but true, please dont pity me!
2006-10-12 12:54:19 · 13 answers · asked by painfulmisery 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I'm a virgin too, but from what I have heard, It hurts the first time the most but then you feel a rush of pleasue and the next few times it's not as bad. like everything else your body needs to get used to it. in your body you have what is called your hymen. (men don't have one.) It's located up inside your vagina. when the penis penetrates the vagina, it loosens then breaks the vagina. it may not always do this. some of the hymens are toughers than others (they can be removed by a doctor) and some hymens will break due to sports (if your breaks without having sex you are STILL a virgin. you lose for virginity when a man's penis enters your vagina. Gee, I'm turning into the Sunday night sex Show's Dr Sue Johansan! Also if you are raped, you are STILL a virgin. It has to be given away, not taken from you! You CHOOSE who you give your virginity to!). Assuming that the hymen has successfuly broken you will feel a rush of pleasure and then assuming there is no condom, the man's semen will feel hot inside your body, and if you are lucky what is called an orgasm. I have no idea what that feels like. Only that more people fake it thatn feel it. If you feel it, It must feel like going to the stars and back because that's how it has been described. I've never read about it and that's why I can't answer that. all of the information I have given you thus far. I can tell you that sex is not a sin but should be confined to marriage. because the emotional attachement you wll feel to this one person will stay with you and if you lose your virginity you wll rmemeber it for the rst of your life. don't worry about losing yourvirginity. worry abou building a relationship with yoru partner. worry about being friends with him and then the friendship should turn into a dating relationship which will turn into engagement then mrriage and THEN on the wedding night or honeymoon start worrying about this! This is the thing brides freak out about in the bathroom while their groom waits in the bedroom. I worried ALOT about this so I did alot of research. And that ihow I know so much. No, I haven't had sex yet. when I worry, I research.
2006-10-12 13:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by leeanndemon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotionally && Physically I have. My father abused me and called me a whore. My boyfriends would hit me and become very controlling. I get called a Whore and a Slut because the way i dress is too revealing. I honestly dress the way i do for myself. Because its comfterable and i feel attractive. And yes men hurt us.. but they arent all bad like i was with this guy he was a nerd but nerds are cute<3 We were together for 8 months. He ended up kissing some girls cheek in the end and betrayed me.. but every woman goes through stuff like this and we all move on. I mean if its an abusive relationship you should get out of it.. i wish i had sooner... but im not really christian...i mean i honestly dont know what i am... but the question interested me and i felt like i could answer... but honestly i do pray and life gets better and you recover though never fully but you do.
2016-05-21 21:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the woman hasn't had sex before then she isn't used to placing something the size of a man's cock in there. It expands to fit but the first time can be a little uncomfortable and sometimes a little blood but this is normal and with repeated times it will adapt and expand as needed.
It's natuaral so no pity here, enjoy yourself but do so safely with a condom and take it easy the first couple of times and make sure you communicate with your lover to make things as comfortable as you can
2006-10-12 12:59:59 · answer #3 · answered by Karce 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I heard that it does (though I wouldn't know; I'm still a virgin too!). According to my highly addicting issue of Seventeen magazine, sex for the first time can hurt because your hymen breaks when the you-know-what enters the you-know-what. But if you're injured around that area or if you regularly wear tampons during your period, your hymen stretches, and the pain won't be as severe as opposed to if you've never been injured or have never worn a tampon before.
2006-10-12 12:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by Victoria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't being "Nasty" in asking an honest question. I can't tell from your user name if you are a boy or girl, so here is the answer for both. There is a moment of slight pain the first time for a girl. but if her lover takes his time, gets her as aroused as he is it won't last but a second or two. Boys on the other hand feel no pain at all their first time, only the pleasure. Not quite fair is it?
2006-10-12 13:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by Daydream Believer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It hurts when your hymen gets broken - this often happens to a woman when she has intercourse for the first time, but it can be broken in other ways as well. I broke mine when I was a kid and I fell on a fence. There was a sharp stabbing pain and some blood. It ached for a few hours, but it wasn't that terrible.
2006-10-12 12:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For some women it doesn't hurt one bit. Others find it so painful that they can't continue. But being highly aroused, well lubricated, and fingered beforehand really helps!
2006-10-12 13:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah because naturally ur hole is tight so yeah its gonna hurt. i dont pity u i admire u for holding on to it.
2006-10-12 12:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, maybe not. Chikita B, hit me up.
2006-10-12 12:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
um a little .....itz not like ur goig 2 die
2006-10-12 12:58:08 · answer #10 · answered by beautiful 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋