me and my boyfriend was broken up 4 about 3 monhs and we just got back together and he kept asking me to get his name tattoo and i got it,so for about three weeks everything was good and his friend was saying to me how my boyfriend loves me and he dont want me to hurt his feelings and how he really like me.after those three weeks he start acting like it's all about him and all he care about is hisself.we dont even be spending time with each other he always with his friends drinking or going to parties so i say to him why you dont be spending time with me and he say cause i dont be having time to and most of my money go to my son but at first he wasnt even claming his son and now all his money go to his son i dont beleive that.i would speak to him 1 day and 4 the next couple of days he wouldnt call me so i calls him and say why u aint call me and he responds and say cause you aint call me.im so confused i dont no what to do all my friends tell me to stop calling him do u think i should
2006-10-12 12:49:07 · 9 answers · asked by SHANNON H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you are getting played. You should never have gotten a tattoo unless he got one too! Men love the chase and as soon as they conquer their quest the thrill is gone. I would advise you to get busy ( or atleast act busy) give the impression that you have no time to sita nd wonder what he's doing and DEFINITELY DON"T CALL HIM, make him step up our step out! Let him start wondering what you are doing. Come up with some friends to visit or places to go and be as vague as you can be. When he does call sometimes don't take his calls or be busy. and don't let his friends know your every move. I came up with a cousin who I haven't seen in years and now we hang out ALL the time. It will turn his butt around. Read the book " The Rules" It changed my relationship SOOOOO much. My man was acting the same way and now I can't get him to leave me alone for a minute. It's hard but if you want to get your mans attention follow the rules..It works. Also don't be surprised if he's cheating on you. Man are going to spend time with what's important to them and usually it's NOT a man. read the book and see how he changes. Best luck!
2006-10-12 12:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by triangle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but it sounds like between the time of your break up your boyfriend either has found someone else or has learned to do without you. When your spouse/partner starts spending less time with you, it's usually a sign that he has lost interest.
My first suggestion would be to talk to him what he wants to do, and what he thinks can make the relationship better. If that isn't successful I would say it's time to move on, for I believe that you can find someone that better suits your emotional needs.
Of course breaking up is the easy part and getting over the person is a lot more difficult, but I assume that you guys have had problems before if you broke up before.
Best of luck,
Drew Bryant
2006-10-12 13:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by drew.bryant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This so-called b/f sounds like a total loser who does not care or respect you in anyway shape or form.
Get rid of this pr*ck & find someone who will love, care & respect you. This person does not deserve you.
Life is too short.
Enjoy everyday.
2006-10-12 12:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this guy is sure he wants to be with you. But, there is not much you can do but wait and see. Just do everything you can in the meantime to make yourself happy. Do enjoyable things that don't involve him.
good luck!
2006-10-12 12:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to the tattoo shop have his name remove or cover it with another figure and then DUMPED HIM!! get a new bf and don't ever tattoo their name on your body ANYMORE!
2006-10-12 12:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rule no.1: Never....get somebody's name tatooed on any part of your anatomy.
2006-10-12 12:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
"whatevea,whatevea, I CAN DO WHAT I WANT! "....espoide of south park where hes on a talk show lol lol .........go get on a talk show, sounds like headache....lol....call cheaters too while your at it. smile! get a new boyfriend serouisly...I'M CERAL!
2006-10-12 12:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got a tattoo of his name?! ~ Why the heck would you do that? ~ It doesn't even seem that he likes you
2006-10-12 12:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
honey this guy isn,t right for you he trying to use you dont call him again get his name removed he dont respect you .please you deserve better
2006-10-12 13:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋