his been asking me for about a week, so should i give it a try?
i know i will feel guilty and durty about myself afterwards
and yes - i was raised in a very strict house - its the inner me that doesnt allow me to do it, and i know i would enjoy it anyway, its more for him thing
2006-10-12 12:49:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
woops,,,, my BOY friend, haha not my boss friend, funny
2006-10-12 12:49:43 · update #1
And?
2006-10-12 12:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by boilerrat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL okay, I was thinking her BOSS is asking her--that's not right!! LOL
I think you have a right to be comfortable, and if you think it will make you feel awful, then I wouldn't do it. OR if you think you would enjoy it, I'd say give it a try and be honest with him afterwards if you felt awful about it.
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I can understand her confusion in emotions. I used to be the same way. When I was first married, I had a hard time maturing sexually and often even though I enjoyed things we did, I felt guilty about it. I didn't think that I SHOULD enjoy it.
2006-10-12 19:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by Tracy S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very funny mistake, because I would have had a VERY different answer if your "Boss friend" was asking you to strip for him! Anyway, you said you would feel dirty if you did it but then you say you would feel good about it, so I'm confused. But if you like it and he likes it, what's the problem?
2006-10-12 19:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by Lord_Tyveris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's for your man, why not? Don't think of yourself as dirty or feel guilty about it. Think of it as you are making your man happy. You should feel good that he wants you to do so, there are a lot of men who would go watch strippers and the club. Plus it's not like you're doing it for a room full of guys, just yours!!
2006-10-12 19:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by ladystarrchild107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont strip for him someone else might. Yes your right it is a "more for him thing" that's what it should be about pleasing the other person and not yourself. He should do things that make you feel good regardless if it makes him feel good.
2006-10-12 19:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by justcurious 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
2 points.
2006-10-12 19:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think u should strip for your boss think twice n tell me if it's a good thing u really need 2 use your head.
2006-10-12 19:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by scherlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what the point here is. If your bf wants you to disrobe, what is the big deal? You either do it or you don't. You are an adult woman, so just act accordingly.
2006-10-12 19:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O i was thinking WHat?? why would your boss ask you do to do that! tell your boyfriend that you dont want to do it, he should have more respect for you than treating you like a cheap hooker. maybe you need someone who will respect you
2006-10-12 19:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just tryin to fulfill his horny desires, I think its selfish. But hey whateva makes you happy.
2006-10-12 19:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by N/a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO! You should complain and do some serious yelling and possibly face slapping!
2006-10-12 19:51:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋